Showing posts with label routine madness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label routine madness. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 26, 2023

11.26 Moment - It's Obviously Bedtime

Bestest Friend and I are doing a blog project. Each day we will write a blog post on pre-determined theme chosen by a random noun generator. The theme for the twenty-sixth day of the month is "Moment." 

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There's a moment every night. The dog has been walked. Teeth have been brushed. The dishwasher has been started. I am probably sitting on the couch and doing Duolingo and both of the girls put themselves to bed. They are exhausted. I am exhausted. The day is almost over. 

I will finish my lesson and wake Hannah up to put her in the mudroom. I will chance a quick pet of Zelda's belly. I will say "good night, girls, be good" as I head upstairs to sleep.
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What is the most peaceful moment of your day?

Monday, April 03, 2023

March 2023 Accountability Buddy

Wednesday, March 1
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime*
30-minute cardio & core class
30-minute tabata-based body blast class - Just like last week, I was really dragging by the end of this class. I think I'm a bit under-caloried for this last class and I need to remember to get a snack an hour before classes begin next week.

Thursday, March 2
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
40-minute Yoga with Adriene (Center - day 15 and day 16

Friday, March 3
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 18 - glutes & hamstrings) - hip thrusts and lunges, oh my!
20-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 17 - Center)

Saturday, March 4
Day off

Sunday, March 5
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 19 - dumbbell total body) - It starts okay and you're lulled, but then the burpees show up.
20-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 18 - Center) 

Monday, March 6
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 20 - HIIT) - I don't need to tell you fine folks that this was a lot of burpees, do I?
20-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 19 - Center)

Tuesday, March 7
30-minute tabata class
17-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 20 - Center) - I've been having a lot of trouble with tight, spasming muscles in my glutes and this video was very helpful

Wednesday, March 8
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute cardio & core class
30-minute body blast class

Thursday, March 9
Day off

Friday, March 10
30 minutes of shoveling - we had a lovely March snowfall last night
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 21 - legs) - I did the last circuit entirely bodyweight and laugh forever at the all-lunge finisher
17-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 21 - Center) 

Saturday, March 11
40-minutes of Yoga with Adreine (day 22 - Center and a video for lower backs)

Sunday, March 12
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 22 - arms)
13-minute Fitness Blender yoga-infused stretch

Monday, March 13
60-minute Two Birds Yoga video

Tuesday, March 14
30-minute tabata class (damned if my instructor didn't add burpees to every circuit)

Wednesday, March 15
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute cardio and core class (she had us do single-leg hops and I KNEW BETTER, but I did them anyway and tweaked my bad leg, so then I was down to low-impact for the rest of the night)
30-minute body blast class

Thursday, March 16
Day off

Friday, March 17
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
35-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 23 - glutes & hamstrings) - So many modifications.
17-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 23 - Center)

Saturday, March 18
45-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 24 and day 25 - Center)

Sunday, March 19
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 24 - total body) - This was sweaty and my heartrate was up the whole time. Nice workout. I was quite spent by the finisher, though.
15-minute yoga video (kitties! there are naughty kitties!)

Monday, March 20
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
60-minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, March 21
60-minute dance/yoga class at the community center

Wednesday, March 22
30-minute cardio & core class

Thursday, March 23
Day off

Friday, March 24
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 25 - full body dumbbell cardio)  - Ha ha ha. I couldn't do a bunch of these with bodyweight, let alone dumbbells. 

Saturday, March 25
45-minutes of shoveling wet snow and then an afternoon walk with Hannah trudging through snow other people hadn't yet shoveled. I was a sweaty mess at the end of it all.

Sunday, March 26
40-minutes Yoga with Adriene (day 26 and day 27 - Center)

Monday, March 27
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
60-minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, March 28
30-minute tabata class
20-minute Yoga with Adriene (day 28 - Center)

Wednesday, March 29
30-minute cardio & core class
30-minute body blast class

Thursday, March 30
Day off

Friday, March 31
30-minute Caroline Girvan Fuel series (day 26 - legs) - I ended up doing this bodweight starting about halfway through. LOL forever at the finisher. 

Totals: 25/31 (80.6%) total days 
18 days of cardio/strength training (30 minutes or more)
7 days of yoga (30 minutes or more)
10 short 15-minute stretch classes at lunchtime

Not a terrible month, although I have to do a bit better about balancing my yoga/strength training. I did a fair number of short yoga videos, but my mental endurance isn't great. I'll work on this balancing act as a goal in April. 


*Our local health care group offers free 15-minute stretch classes on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays through Zoom. They are free! It's fun! Come join us! Sign up here

Saturday, February 11, 2023

4.11 Stranger - In a Strange Town

Bestest Friend and I are doing a blog project. Each day we will write a blog post on a pre-determined theme chosen by a random noun generator. The theme for the eleventh day of the month is "Stranger."

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I had a periodontist appointment earlier this week in the nearby larger town. Every time I have been to the dentist since COVID (I go every three months), I have had a different hygienist. Actually, the last time I saw my family dentist, the dentist himself did the cleaning, which is the first time I've ever had a dentist do that for me. Anyway, I hate having new hygienists because I have to give them my whole history and it's embarrassing and I frequently cry. But this hygienist was so comforting and kind and spent the whole meeting nattering on about how she and her husband met at a bar and troubles her teen daughter was having at school, and pretended not to notice when I tensed up whenever she went near my trouble areas.

And for the first time I can ever remember, I actually relaxed in a dentist's chair. I wasn't waiting for her to tell me that my gums were in bad shape, that the mobility in my bottom teeth was getting worse, or that we might want to talk about options for replacing teeth. I wasn't waiting for a lecture about how bad things were or a recommendation for yet another thing to add to my cleaning regime. I imagine that this is how many people feel all the time at the dentist, but for me it was a real treat. 

Was it the best cleaning ever? Who knows? I'll probably never see that hygienist again, but I will definitely fill out the patient survey to sing her praises.

Of course I went to the local library when I was finished with my cleaning and this little car outside the building was just so happy and cheerful.

Have you had a positive experience with something that normally bums you out recently?

Monday, January 02, 2023

December 2022 Accountability Buddy

I'm going to be honest and frank with all of you. This was probably my worst month of the year.  *heavy sigh* I didn't make my goals, but I didn't give up, so I'll give myself a B- here. 

Thursday, December 1
Day off
 
Friday, December 2
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime

Saturday, December 3
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 14 - unilateral training full body)
15 minute leg stretching video with that super earnest guy I have a tiny crush on

Sunday, December 4
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 15 - shoulders) - I did this with 5 pounds weights. My next size up in 7.5 and that was too much, but 5 was not really enough for some of the exercises. Hm.
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy

Monday, December 5
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center 

Tuesday, December 6
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 16 - hamstrings) - Lots of modifications here.
30 minute yoga video (the sound on this video is terrible, but he holds the poses for a long time, so I felt like I got a really good stretch.)

Wednesday, December 7
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy
 
Thursday, December 8
Day off
 
Friday, December 9
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
So much shoveling 
30 minute low-impact cardio video (don't let the "low-impact" fool you - this is hard)
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy
 
Saturday, December 10
30 minute gentle vinyasa with 2 Birds Yoga (look, shoveling was rough yesterday) 
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy
 
Sunday, December 11
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 17 - upper body) 

Monday, December 12
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center 

Tuesday, December 13
30 minute tabata class
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy

Wednesday, December 14
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class

Thursday, December 15
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 18 - glutes) - This is too much glutes at once
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy

Friday, December 16
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime

Saturday, December 17
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 19 - total body) - This is nearly a perfect total body workout

Sunday, December 18
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 20 - arms) - Ha ha. Lots of modifications on this one. I think there are exercises that are literally impossible to do, although Jenny has done this one repeatedly, so someone can do it, I guess. 
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy

Monday, December 19
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center 

Tuesday, December 20
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 21 - legs) - Somehow tweaked my back with this one
10 minute back pain stretch video

Wednesday, December 21
My tweaked back made this a day off.

Thursday, December 22
Still babying my back. Hoping to be back in the saddle tomorrow.

Friday, December 23
Did some light shoveling, but otherwise still not doing much because of my back. It's feeling mostly better, but I want to be sure. 

Saturday, December 24
30 minute Yoga with Adriene video focused on back recovery

Sunday, December 25
Christmas Day - rest day

Monday, December 26
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 22 - arms) - I was lucky that this was an arms day because my bad leg is really acting up today.  Fingers crossed it stops being so dumb. (Also, getting old is really terrible.)

Tuesday, December 27
30 minute tabata class
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy

Wednesday, December 28
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arms class
30 minute body blast class

Thursday, December 29
45 minute vinyasa video with 2 Birds Yoga

Friday, December 30
30 minute Caroline Girvan Iron series (day 23 - glutes/hamstrings) - Lots of modifications here because I can't do those hamstring lunges on the end of a chair without hurting myself!
15 minute leg stretch video with the earnest guy

Saturday, December 31
Day off because I feel like I am a teenager again with issues with my cycle


Totals: 22/31 (71/%) days of formal workouts of 30 minute or more
7 yoga workouts
16 strength/cardio workouts
9 short 15 minute stretch classes at lunchtime* plus 10 days of stretching with the earnest guy

*Our local health care group offers free 15-minute stretch classes on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays through Zoom.  They are free! It's fun! Come join us! Sign up here

Monday, December 05, 2022

November 2022 Accountability Buddy

Tuesday, November 1
30 minute yoga class
30 minute full-body tabata class

Wednesday, November 2
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arms class
30 minute body blast class
Hours in the yard

Thursday, November 3
45 minute run 
Hours in the yard

Friday, November 4
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
An hour in the yard before I fled inside when lightning and thunder started

Saturday, November 5
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 5 - arms/abs)

Sunday, November 6
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 6 - quads) 
15 minute leg stretch video

Monday, November 7
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, November 8
30 minute yoga class
30 minute tabata class

Wednesday, November 9
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class

Thursday, November 10
An hour raking leaves, but otherwise a day off

Friday, November 11
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 7 - shoulders and triceps)

Saturday, November 12
40 minute vinyasa flow with 2 Birds Yoga

Sunday, November 13
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 8 - glutes and hamstrings) - Lots of modifications for me on this one. 

Monday, November 14
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, November 15
30 minute yoga class

Wednesday, November 16
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class (very tough class for me!)

Thursday, November 17
30 minute Iron series from Caroline TGirvan (day 9 - full body dumbbell cardio circuit) - It was really cold today and this was a great workout to warm me up and get a sweat on.

Friday, November 18
Day off

Saturday, November 19
30 minute restorative yoga video

Sunday, November 20
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 10 - back & biceps)
15 minute stretch video - My bad leg is really acting up, so I'm trying to really keep it limber if I can

Monday, November 21
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, November 22
30 minute yoga class
30 minute tabata class

Wednesday, November 23
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 11 - dumbbell legs & calves) - This was. so. hard. 
15 minute stretch video

Thursday, November 24
Day off

Friday, November 25
Day off (was not planned, but Zelda the Cat wanted cuddles and then I fell asleep and then there was no workout, but a nap in its place)

Saturday, November 26
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 12 - upper body) - This series. Is. Boring.
30 minutes slow flow yoga video

Sunday, November 27
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Girvan (day 13 - posterior chain)
15 minute lower body stretch video (this guy is so very earnest and I may have a tiny crush on him)
 
Monday, November 28
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, November 29
30 minute yoga class
30 minute tabata class

Wednesday, November 30
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class (mostly lower body/cardio)

Totals: 
25/30 (83.3%)days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more 
12 yoga workouts
18 strength/cardio workouts
9 short 15 minute stretch classes at lunchtime* plus 4 short stretch videos

*Our local healthcare group offers free fifteen minute stretch classes virtually three times a week around lunchtime. They are free! It's fun! Come join us! Register here. (It's totally free!)
 


Wednesday, November 02, 2022

October 2022 Accountability Buddy

Saturday, October 1
20 minute total body dumbbell workout
10 minute standing abs workout

Sunday, October 2
30 minute low-impact cardio video (my bad leg is acting up, but I wanted to get my heartrate up)

Monday, October 3
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, October 4
30 minute upper body workout from FitnessBlender

Wednesday, October 5
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class (not great planning since I did arms yesterday)
30 minute body blast class, focused on lower-body

Thursday, October 6
Day off

Friday, October 7
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
3 mile run

Saturday, October 8
30 minute Yoga with Adriene

Sunday, October 9
30 minute butt and thigh pilates video

Monday, October 10
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, October 11
20 minute arm video
10 minute standing arm video
(I didn't care for either of these videos, to be honest. I wouldn't necessarily recommend them.)

Wednesday, October 12
Day off

Thursday, October 13
30 minute HIIT video. I think Caroline Girvan is too hardcore for me. So many burpees and I think I hurt my wrist.

Friday, October 14
Restorative yoga for 30 minutes. It was delightful and was mostly breathing and laying on your back, so if you need a real chill practice, this is one for you.

Saturday, October 15
30 minute Yoga with Adriene in a hotel room. 

Sunday, October 16
Day off. We traveled and came back to a million chores, so nothing happened. 

Monday, October 17
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, October 18
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Garvin (day 1 - leg-focused)

Wednesday, October 19
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Garvin (day 2 - upper-body)

Thursday, October 20
45 minute run

Friday, October 21
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
40 minute restorative yoga video

Saturday, October 22
Hours in the yard. We took four or five loads over to the compost pile and it was a lot of bending, lifting, whacking (I learned how to use the machete!) , and sneezing.

Sunday, October 23
30 minute cardio tabata video with Sydney Cummings (I loved this and it was exactly what I needed)

Monday, October 24
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center 

Tuesday, October 25
30 minute tabata class

Wednesday, October 26
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
35 minute restorative yoga video

Thursday, October 27
30 minute Iron series from Caroline Garvin (day 3 - glutes - this is too much glutes at once for the likes of me!)

Friday, October 28
30 minute Iron series from Carline Garvin (day 4 - total body dumbbell circuit - very boring doing the same circuit three times, but I was very sweaty and out of breath by the end)

Saturday, October 29
30 minute Yoga with Adriene Root to Rise video

Sunday, October 30
Day off

Monday, October 31
15 minute stretch video

Totals: 25/31 days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more (I didn't include the day spent doing yardwork)
10 yoga workouts
14 strength/cardio workouts
6 short lunchtime stretch classes and one short stretch video

My goal is 5/7 (71.4%) days a week and I did 80.6%, so I'm feeling pretty good about it. 

Our local healthcare group offers free fifteen minute stretch classes virtually three time a week around lunchtime. They are free! It's fun! Come join us! If you want to join us, you can register here

Wednesday, October 05, 2022

September 2022 Accountability Buddy

Thursday, September 1
No workout

Friday, September 2
30 minute yoga video.

Saturday, September 3
We went to a family reunion, so no workout.

Sunday, September 4
3-mile run.

Monday, September 5
40 minute full body, no repeat video with Sydney

Tuesday, September 6
30 minute yoga class
30 minute tabata class

Wednesday, September 7
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class (but, to be honest, I modified or did bodyweight for more than half of the exercises, so don't be too impressed)

Thursday, September 8
20 minute Yoga with Adriene video
10 minute standing core video (with lots of squats!)

Friday, September 9
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
40 minute leg video from FitnessBlender

Saturday, September 10
20 minute yoga with Adriene video (mostly core, so be warned!)
10 minute yoga full body stretch video

Sunday, September 11
40 minute low impact cardio/core from FitnessBlender

Monday, September 12
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, September 13
30 minute yoga class
30 minute lower-body tabata class

Wednesday, September 14
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime

Thursday, September 15
Yoga video from 2Birds. 

Friday, September 16
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
35 minute cardio interval kickboxing FitnessBlender video

Saturday, September 17
Day off

Sunday, September 18
30 minute arm video

Monday, September 19
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, September 20
30 minute yoga class

Wednesday, September 21
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class 
(I had a headache for these two classes and was really struggling. I made a lot of modifications.)

Thursday, September 22
No workout. The headache was in full force.

Friday, September 23
Quick lower-body video
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime

Saturday and Sunday, September 24 & 25
No workouts. I got my COVID booster and felt kind of yucky all weekend.

Monday, September 26
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center 

Tuesday, September 27
30 minute yoga class
30 minute cardio-based tabata class

Wednesday, September 28
30 minute arm class
30 minute body blast class

Thursday, September 29
45 minute run.

Friday, September 30
45 minute yoga flow with Two Birds.

Totals: 
24/30 (80%) days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more
12 yoga workouts
13 cardio/strength workouts
9 short lunchtime stretch classes

My goal is 5/7 days (71.4%) and I did meet this goal, even though it felt like I was taking a lot of days off. Despite my job situation being somewhat more clear, I am still relatively stressed out about my professional life and I'm finding that adhering to a strict schedule of physical activity is really helping me maintain sanity.

*Our local healthcare group offers free fifteen minute stretch class classes virtually three times a week around lunchtime. They are free! It's fun! Come join us! If you want to register for the classes, click here

Monday, September 12, 2022

Pandemic Update: Things Are Not Normal

I recently read a comment on someone else's blog along the lines of "I'm over COVID and I'm not worried about monkeypox and my life is the same now as it had been before" and I was a bit dumbfounded. Because things are definitely not normal here. (I'm not particularly worried about monkeypox, to be fair.)

1) I'm still masking indoors. I am frequently the only person in a mask, but I still feel really gross about breathing in air particles filled with germs. I recently did an in-person interview and I wore a mask for the whole thing, despite only one other person (of the dozens I met) wearing one. I do wonder if that impacted their decision to not hire me, but I also think that if my mask wearing does make a negative impression, then the job wasn't a good fit for me.

We did interviews for a candidate to replace the Executive Director of the community center where I volunteer and one candidate wore a mask (as did I), but no one else on the committee wore a mask and the other members of the committee were pretty down on her for wearing one. I tried to suggest that there are good reasons for wearing a mask and limited myself to four:

a) She may be immunocompromised or is close to someone else who is 
b) She may have been exposed to someone who has tested positive in the last ten days
c) She may have regular contact with an infant (or someone else) who is not eligible for vaccination
d) She just doesn't want to get sick herself with a variety of gross things, including colds, flus, and COVID

Regardless, they kept bringing it up.  

2) I don't remember the last time I wasn't stressed out in an indoor public setting. I do not browse in stores, but I go in, get what I need, and get out. I don't hang around at the coffee shop, but I go in, make my order, get it, and leave. As soon as the door behind me closes, I can feel my heartrate increase, and I am a nervous Nellie.  I cannot foresee myself ever going to a movie theater again, ever trying on clothes at a store, or even enjoying a simple stroll through Target while sipping a delicious coffee beverage.

At the family reunion over Labor Day, we stayed with my husband's father and his wife. But when we went to the house where all the activities were taking place, I stayed outdoors or in the garage that had all the doors open. After the weekend, at least ten people tested positive for COVID, including my husband's golf cart partner and his father and his father's wife, who we were staying with. AND THE BABY. So far, despite having spent considerable amounts of time with some of those particular people, Dr. BB and I have remained negative and we chalk it up to all the precautions we took.

But. 

I am not nearly as excited about family get togethers as I was before this Labor Day. I don't like the idea that one of us is asymptomatic and we're giving COVID to our elderly relatives. I don't like the idea that the one infant who was too young to be vaccinated (and got passed around A LOT) was exposed and in the end, actually was infected. I don't like the idea that our cousin who has a terrible case of multiple sclerosis might be infected. I don't like it. 

I also don't like the idea of never seeing family again because someone might get sick. What's the point of living like that?  In the balance between mental and physical health, I think my husband and I are letting physical health win and I'm not sure if it's the right choice. On the other hand, the research is quite unclear about what exactly the repercussions would be for my husband if he did get COVID, based on his underlying conditions. It seems like some research says he'll have the same outcomes as other people without those conditions and other research suggests he'll have more severe symptoms and probably long-lasting symptoms. In the battle of the experts, who do we believe?  

3) I do not think I will ever again be comfortable eating in restaurants. Like, ever again. The idea of being in an enclosed environment with people chewing and swallowing repulses me. So gross. We rarely ate out pre-COVID, but at this point I'm concerned it might impact my future career should I refuse business lunches or dinners. 

I do leave my house, I assure you. But things are not normal here. I just thought you should know. Things are not like they were pre-March 2020 and I don't see how they can ever be.

Monday, September 05, 2022

August 2022 Accountability Buddy

Monday, August 1
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, August 2
30 minute tabata class

Wednesday, August 3
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime

Thursday, August 4
30 minute Yoga with Adriene video

Friday, August 5
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
35 minute FitnessBlender arm workout

Saturday, August 6
30 minute FitnessBlender leg workout

Sunday, August 7
30 minute tabata cardio video with Sydney Cummings
10 minute arm-focused video

Monday, August 8
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, August 9
30 minute cardio/core class 

Wednesday, August 10
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute cardio class
30 minute ladder-style body blast class

Thursday, August 11
Day off. I took a nap

Friday, August 12
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
45 minute 2Birds yoga video. I really liked this one.

Saturday, August 13
Hours of yardwork. So many bags went to the compost pile.

Sunday, August 14
It was a relatively cool day today, so I went for a run.

Monday, August 15
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute arms and abs video

Tuesday, August 16 - Friday, August 19
No workouts. I was hosting a visitor and just didn't prioritize exercise at all.

Saturday, August 20
To get back into the swing of things, I did a couple of yoga videos

Sunday, August 21
30 minute arm workout from FitnessBlender. This is one of my standby workouts.
20 minute Yoga with Adriene to try to deal with some stress.

Monday, August 22
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, August 23
30 minute arm/cardio class

Wednesday, August 24
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute leg workout video

Thursday, August 25
I had some sore legs after yesterday, so I did a Yoga with Adriene video to help.

Friday, August 26
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime

Saturday, August 27
45 minute run

Sunday, August 28
40 minute arm workout video with FitnessBlender

Monday, August 29
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
60 minute yoga class at the community center

Tuesday, August 30
30 minute cardio/standing core class

Wednesday, August 31
15 minute stretch class at lunchtime
30 minute cardio class
30 minute body blast class

Totals:
24/31 (77.4%) days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more
9 yoga workouts
16 cardio/strength workouts
12 short lunchtime stretch classes

My goal is 5/7 days (71.4%) and I made my goal even though I took off four days when my friend was visiting. I feel pretty great about this month. I feel so stressed out, but taking time for exercise has been a real boon to my mental health.  I'm super pleased with this performance.

*Our local healthcare group offers free fifteen minute stretch classes virtually three times a week around lunchtime. They are free!  It's fun! Come join us! If you want to register for the classes, click here

Wednesday, August 31, 2022

A Snapshot of My Day, Edition #7 8/30/2022

I got the idea for this type of "snapshot" post from Stephany Writes who got it from To Love and To Learn. I'm a straight up copycat of the format. 

Hannah on her morning walk. Grumpy dog.

Time I woke up: 6:30 when the alarm went off.

First thing I did upon waking: Cuddled with Dr. BB for a few minutes before we got up and closed all the windows upstairs for the day.

Today's weather: Beautiful August day - high of 75 and blue skies. 

Sunset by the river. 

An out-of-the-ordinary thing that happened today: The executive director of the community center I volunteer for is retiring and we did face-to-face interviews with the finalists for the position today. It was so weird to be on the other side of the interview situation.

Last thing I read (not on the internet): I'm reading the book Dawn by Octavia Butler. 

Last thing I read (on the internet): This story about a guy who was cyberstalking everyone. Crazy.

Last text I sent: I forwarded a text from one of my friends that said "Thank you for encouraging me...the calm I feel now after what was a stressful day is amazing" to my yoga teacher with the note "Message from L yesterday after class - you do great work!"

Last text I received: (in response to the above text) "Oh, yay!!!!!  Thanks for sharing, D! Heart emoji"

Last website I visited: Goodreads to find that link to the book above. Ha. Before then, I had checked the library website to keep an eye on when my holds are going to come in and when some books are due.



Last show I watched: We watched the documentary Inside the Mind of a Cat on Netflix over the weekend. I am fascinated by the research that shows cats have distinct personalities when they are as young as three days old. I wonder how consistent those personalities remain over the lifetime of a cat.

Last thing I said: "Yes" to Dr. BB after he asked me if it would be okay for him to turn on the television while I worked on this post.

Last thing I ate: The above zucchini bread. I have a confession to make - it was a little dry because I overbaked it.  Didn't stop me from eating it.

Her face!  Why does she always look so grumpy in photos?

What I was doing an hour ago: Finishing up dinner.

What I will be doing an hour from now: Probably reading.

Current whereabouts of the other members of the household: Dr. BB is watching television (Archer), Zelda is on the top of the couch just over my shoulder, and Hannah is laying down at my feet.

One thing I crossed off my to-do list today: I sent a rather brisk email to my boss asking him about the plans for winding down my job.  

She loves me, I promise. But the birds are so distracting!

Are you also overwhelmed with zucchini and making lots of zucchini bread? Is the weather as absolutely gorgeous where you are as it is where I am? Do your pets immediately look grumpy when you take out your camera?

Tuesday, August 16, 2022

Ten Things Tuesday

1) Birthday - Today is my birthday. That is all. There is nothing else to say except that I will be getting myself a cupcake or two from the local bakery and quite possibly even a tasty coffee drink in celebration.

2) Friend with cancer update - We went to see our friend with cancer two Saturdays ago for the first time since we learned of his diagnosis. We brought a housewarming present and our dog and stayed there for a couple of hours chatting with him and his father. Then we went again on Saturday. This time we brought a kringle and our dog. We stayed and chatted for a bit, then left Hannah and ran errands, came back and chatted. I'd like to keep going once or twice a week to check in with him and I'd like to be the person that they can rely on to run errands if they need it. He also loves Hannah and has been so happy to see her.  Basically, he seems to be doing really well, is in good spirits, and it felt really good to see him.

3) Staycation - I took this whole week off and the thought of not checking my email is amazing.

4) Visitor - One of the reasons I took the week off is because one of my best friends is coming to visit me! I literally have not made a single plan for us, but I imagine there will be lots of talking about doing things, but actually just sitting on the couch.

5) Agnes update - I went and got our older car an oil change. And that's done. (I also replaced a headlight and a license plate light.)

6) Manuals gone - Pre-pandemic, I used to teach test preparation for one of the larger test prep companies. They closed the office in Madison in 2019 and my hours kept declining precipitously, but I loved that job and was good at it, so I kept on keeping on until it went down to nothing. So for the last two years, I've had two entire bookshelves full of manuals and paperwork for that job. I went through them on Sunday and recycled all of them. If I ever work for that company again, I'll have to be retrained and they'll have to give me new, updated materials, so there was no use in me keeping it all. It felt amazing to clean it all out.

7) ROTE - One of the reasons that I wanted to clean out those bookshelves was that I used an old gift card from dogsitting several summers ago to buy the entire Realm of the Elderlings saga in paperback and needed somewhere to put all those books. I think a reread will be happening relatively soon.

8) Television - Dr. BB and I have been doing a Buffy/Angel rewatch and we're on the last season of Angel now and I honestly have no idea what we're going to watch next. This is the largest cause of marital tension in our house!  Do you have any suggestions for television shows available on either Netflix or Prime?  

9) References - I did the interview for a job I'd really like to get on the 3rd. One of my references told me that someone had reached out to him for a reference last week. That's a good sign, right?  Please tell me it's a good sign!

10) Bird picture - Dr. BB was in Iowa a couple of weeks ago visiting his dad, who has recently sold his house and is looking to move at the end of the summer. All of this to say, his dad is trying to get rid of things and we ended up with a picture of a burning ship and a picture of two cardinals in a winter pine. I banished the ship picture to the office and the cardinals sit in our dining room and looks amazing. 

Friday, August 05, 2022

Five Things Friday

In the spirit of dumping my thoughts out via writing, here goes my five things.

1) I wrote earlier this week about a friend who was recently diagnosed with cancer. We're going to take Hannah over to his house this weekend, but I am a person whose love language is gift giving and I was unsure about what else to bring/do when we went over there. But then I realized that this is the first time we're going to see his house because he just bought it earlier this year and I could reframe this as a housewarming visit.

So I went to the local flower shop and bought some kitchen towels, a cheese and crackers tray, and a plant. It's not a "wow! I'm so sorry you have cancer, please pet my dog and feel better" visit. It's a "welcome to your new home" visit.  I am the queen of avoidance.

2) Hannah has been feeling pretty frisky these days and we're very excited that it seems like she's feeling better. But she was getting pretty snippy about how much she didn't want to walk and even for a lazy dog, things were getting dire. So we trimmed her nails and guess who was up for a whole mile walk last night?!  Boy, we really should do a better job about trimming those nails on a regular basis. (She hates it. She fights. She squirms. One time she went to nip at Dr. BB. So both of us dread it and we tend to put it off more than we should. If we just did it once a week, things would be better for all of us.)

3) For the last two years, I've had Jaybird Tarah Bluetooth headphones. They are way better than wired headphones for my purposes, but they never fit in my left ear correctly. They just never did. We changed tips, got different types of tips, and I probably listened to the headphones without my left side in about 50% of the time. And last week the left side developed a short and then it stopped working altogether. Dr. BB did some research and ordered me a pair of Samsung Galaxy Buds Pro, which work seamlessly with my Galaxy S10e.  The problem? I still can't figure out how to make it fit in my left ear. It's popped out three times now. I've changed the size of the tips and just can't figure it out. If I don't figure something out by the end of the weekend, I'm going to have to return them and get some Apple AirPods because I've used my husband's and know they fit (I went for a run in them and did a cardio workout that involved jumping jacks), but I'm not psyched about that because you lose a lot of functionality with AirPods if you don't have an iPhone. Why is this so hard?

4) I had a second interview on Tuesday for a job I'd really like to get. Fingers crossed for me.

5) Regardless of the outcome of the job interview on Tuesday, I'm going to probably put my notice in at work on 8/22. I honestly can't take it anymore. I'm not eating, I'm not sleeping, and I can never stop thinking about how terrible it is.  

And that's that. Happy weekend everybody. Give your loved ones an extra hug!

Tuesday, August 02, 2022

Tuesday Randomicity: Someone Tell What To Do

Suzanne does these Randomicity posts every so often and I always admire that people can be thinking about so many things all at once. Generally, my thoughts are "I hate my job," "why does the dog need so many pills?" and "how can I fit in a workout today?" and then my internal thoughts have been completely exhausted. But today is the day! I have random thoughts. 

1) What to do about Agnes?

Agnes is our old 2010 Hyundai Elantra. She was our first big purchase together as a couple. She is, however, now a 12-year old car with more than 240,000 miles on it. Things are slowly starting to fail. The fan on the driver's side no longer works, so the AC/heat doesn't work particularly effectively. The remote locks only sometimes work. A couple of years ago, some mice died in the air filter thing and poor Agnes has had a vague smell of gross ever since. We have started to consult one another about how much gas we're putting in Agnes* ($20? $5?) and now we have to face some real dilemmas. The car is due for an oil change. Technically speaking, it was due for an oil change about five hundred miles ago. Do I take it the dealer? Just to some Valvoline place?  What do I do?  The car could use some new tires. But. Do I spend that much money on a car we rarely drive out of town?  Do I bother fixing the fan?  WHAT DO YOU DO WITH YOUR OLD CARS? **

*We have different levels of comfort about how much gas is in the car. I really don't like the tank to get below a quarter tank. Dr. BB will let the warning light come on if left to his own devices. This leads to a bit of friction at times, although I think now Dr. BB will fill up more often than he normally will if he knows I'll be driving. I just vividly remember going to a book club  on a cold, rainy night and realizing that there was only an eighth of a tank in the car and stopping to fill up the tank on the way there and Dr. BB was utterly confused because there was plenty of gas to get to book club and back, but that's now how I do things.  Anyway.  

**We had one car for the vast majority of our marriage. It's only since 2020 that we've had a second car. And it's useful to have a second car. So I don't want the answer to be "get rid of it" because only having one car payment is nice, you know?  

2) "Ghost in This House" meaning?

Dr. BB was out of town last weekend, so I listened to a lot of Spotify as I did things like clean out my closet and make chocolate chip cookie dough*. The song "Ghost in This House" by Alison Krauss came up and I spent a good deal of  time pondering this song. Is the dude dead? Is he still there, but the relationship is in a terrible place? Is she actually in a new relationship with a new dude and she's pining for her ex? Why is it so ambiguous?  

There's a version by Shenandoah and it is clearly just a break up song. I'm not worried someone is dead when Marty Raybon was singing it, but Krauss makes me wonder. 

*Just the dough. I didn't actually make cookies. I just made a batch and froze it for future use. Also, we were dangerously low on butter, so I when I bought the chocolate chips, I also bought butter and I paid $6.49 for a pound of butter at the store and I realized that if you never hear from me again, it's because I can never leave the house ever again because I bankrupted us in order to make cookie dough.

3) Why are so many songs about sex?

At some point it has become clear to me that I have never reconsidered the real meaning of any songs from my youth. I thought "Into the Groove" was just about dancing until very, very recently.  So I was rather astounded when I realized that "Will You Still Love me Tomorrow?" by the Shirelles is about the day after they have sex. I mean, it's SO OBVIOUS if you pay any attention to the lyrics, but I've been assuming it's just a sweet little love song about teenagers. Why am I this way?  

4) Why are feelings always more complicated than you think they will be?

My father-in-law and his new wife have sold the house where my husband grew up, where I met all of my in-laws, and where my mother-in-law died. They are moving into a new house late summer/early fall. I have very complicated feelings about this. I get very attached to places and the idea of never going back to this place is painful. But it's also painful to go there now with his new wife, who is a lovely woman, but who is definitely not my mother-in-law, who was also a lovely woman and that house is so identifiable with her that it hurts to see the new wife acting as hostess there.

My mother moved out of my childhood home several years ago and it hurt to pull out of the driveway for the last time. And this feels just as heart-wrenching, but I don't feel as if I'm justified in these complicated feelings, so I'm just not saying anything to my husband because it feels weird that I'm mourning something that was never really mine. 

5) When an acquaintance is ill? 

Dr. BB's current and my former co-worker sent out an email that he has recently been diagnosed with cancer. I know very few details, only that he is currently feeling no effects of the illness, but that he is supposed to have treatments through next spring and, as we all know, those treatments are probably going to be bad. He sounded optimistic in his email, but sometimes I sound optimistic about life, too, and you all know how that is in reality. 

He's roughly our age, single, and his family lives in California. He lives in a city about 20-25 minutes away. We used to regularly socialize with him, but since the pandemic, I don't think I've seen him once. He loves Hannah and Hannah loves him. 

In general, I'm quite concerned about his lack of social support. Dr. BB and I both sent emails (him volunteering for errand running, me volunteering Hannah as a therapy dog), but I'm pretty sure that's not enough. On one hand, I'm not really close to this guy. On the other hand, he is all alone. I want to help him, not just right now, but in the future.

The advice I see online is to basically just say, hey, I'm going to bring you groceries/dinner/my dog to pet on X day, but that seems really overstepping. How should I approach this? I don't even have this guy's phone number, although I'm pretty sure Dr. BB has it.  (Update: Dr. BB and I each sent him emails and he responded very positively about seeing Hannah and giving us his phone number, so I think we'll make it a priority to go visit him with the dog in tow. "All dogs are welcome in my home, especially Hannah" is the direct sentence, so I think we'll visit, let Hannah get pets, and then figure out what else we can do from there.)

So, I'll take any and all thoughts on what to do with a car on its last wheels, how to interpret songs on my Spotify list, and how to help out a sick friend. Also, I'll take any thoughts on how to make my brain stop cycling on these topics on an endless loop.  

Wednesday, July 06, 2022

2022 Q2 Goals Update

It's quarterly goals update time! As a reminder, here are my goals for 2022. Here's how Q1 went. Now on to the second quarter.  My health goals went okayish. Everything else was so so.  It was a tough quarter for me professionally and some of that unhappiness bled into these personal goals.  

Area One: Health 

1) Work out five times a week for 30 minutes or more. Yoga twice a week.  Something else three times a week. 

April
24/30 days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more
13 yoga workouts
12 strength/cardio workouts

May
26/31 days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more
9 yoga workouts
16 strength/cardio workouts

June
24/30 days of formal workouts of 30 minutes or more
8 yoga workouts
16 strength/cardio workouts


I did 74/91 days of formal workouts (81.3%) this quarter, which is higher than the 5/7 days goal I had set (71.4%). The yoga goal of twice a week would work out to 26 over the quarter and I did 30, so I hit that. My "something else" three times a week would work out to 39 over the quarter and I did 44, so I also hit that metric.  I feel pretty darn good about this. 

*2)  Drink at least sixteen ounces of water before lunch and sixteen ounces of water after lunch every day. 

April: 16/30 (53%) days in the morning, 29/30 (97%) days after lunch

May: 10/31 (32%) days in the morning, 29/31 (94%) days after lunch

June: 25/30 (83%)days in the morning, 29/30 (97%) days after lunch

After a lackluster early performance, I did get better about filling my mug with water after my morning tea in June.  Let's call it a small win.  

Area Two: Professional 

*1) Apply to a new job at least once a week until I have a new job. 

I've sent out a bunch of resumes and cover letters and have even had a couple of interviews, but I'm still stuck at my current job. I'm honestly so unhappy about this that it's even hard to type it out. 

2) Respond to emails for my volunteer gig in a timely manner. 

Ha ha ha. People have taken to texting me when I actually need to respond. I'm obviously letting this slide.

Area Three: Communication 

1) Continue to post in my blog at least twice a week.

April: 20 posts

May: 20 posts

June: 17 posts

Easily met this goal. Yay!

2) Continue to write a note to K/D/M once a month.

April: Everyone was sent an Easter card.

May: I sent everyone a card for Mother's Day.

June: I guess I just didn't do it this month. Oh, well.  

3) Keep lists of snail mail I send and books I read.

April: Book list here. I sent one bill, eight Easter cards, including to K/D/M, two birthday cards, and a legal document through the mail for a total of 12 items out in snail mail.

May: Book list here. I sent four Mother's Day cards, three bills, and one birthday card for a total of eight items out in snail mail.

June: Book list here. I sent three birthday cards, one Father's Day card, and one bill for  total of five items out in snail mail. June was not my best month for mail. 

*4) Text T/T/M every week. I feel like I'm letting some of my best friendship sort of fall to the wayside because I'm mired in work-related unhappiness, but I need to let these people know I think about them all the time.  Texting isn't intrusive to them, either, so this is a win-win.

April: Completed!

May: I did fail this for one of those people on one week, but otherwise completed.

June: Completed!

Area Four: Post-Pandemic Re-Entry 

1) Visit a new park/nature preserve/outdoor space at least once a quarter.

 This quarter I went to a park for a graduation party in Michigan.  It was new to me!

*2) Visit my mom.

I did not visit my mom, but I'm going to be seeing her in the first week of July, so just barely outside of the second quarter. 

*3) Have people over to our house at least once - for a game night, dinner, or just a hangout. We can't keep ourselves in a bubble forever.

    April: A friend was visiting from out of state and she came over for lunch.

    May: We had friends over for dinner one night.

    June: Womp womp. No one entered our house except for us.

Area Five: Miscellaneous

*1) Keep track of mileage walked with the dog. 

April: 53.78 miles logged this month, which is roughly 1.8 miles a day.  Most days we walked three times, but there were occasional days when we did one more or one less.  On an average day, we walk about a quarter of a mile around the block first thing in the morning, a mile or so in the afternoon, and whatever Hannah feels up to right before bed. On any day that we only went on two walks, she was walked by my husband to get her to three walks a day.

Number of Walks

Number of Days

2

3

3

24

4

2


May: 48.8 miles logged this month, which is roughly 1.6 miles a day. There were a couple of really hot days when Hannah was not up for anything and a few days when she was in some considerable amount of pain and we got less than a mile on those days.

Number of Walks

Number of Days

2

3

3

24

4

4


June: 40.82 miles logged this month, which is roughly 1.36 miles a day. There were a couple of really hot days, Hannah has had some bad pain days, and I was out of town a couple of days. Also, and this is key, fireworks started at the end of the month and Hannah has been basically refusing to go for her evening walk for a couple of weeks now. This will probably go on all summer. Poor scared dog. 

Number of Walks

Number of Days

0

1

1

1

2

7

3

21


*2) Keep track of how I spend my time for a week. Lisa did this in January and I stole the idea from her. Stephany and San did it, too, so I'm really just being a follower.

In college, I was overcommitted and I was having a mini-breakdown in my therapist's office when she had me take off my watch. She kept it for a week and in that week, I stopped watching the seconds pass by and chilled the fuck out. I still don't wear a watch to this day.  I started this exercise on a regular, not much scheduled, nothing urgent happening Saturday, but by 1:30 that afternoon, I found myself checking the clock every two minutes and freaking out over a whole lot of nothing. I immediately stopped tracking my time. As much as I'd like to have the data this exercise would produce, I think I'm going to have to just pass on it.  

*3) Create a document for Dr. BB in the event of my untimely death. Inspired by Suzanne's post.

Ha ha ha. I did not even start this. Rollover to next quarter.

*4) Just figure out how to put more money in my investment accounts. (rollover from last year and last quarter)

I DID THIS! Holy hell. I figured out how to log in to the online account in early April and I set it up to take more money out every month. It wasn't even that hard!!

*5) Continue to donate $50 a month to a local charity. 

April: This month was high in expenses, but I donated $30 to the community foundation for the community center where I worked, so I consider this a job well done.

May: Nope. I bought raffle tickets at the Farmer's Market ($20), but that hardly seems like it counts. 

June: I donated $100 to our local community center ($50 for our yearly membership and $50 for a fundraiser).


I'm basically just including my goals for next quarter here so they're all in one place. Most of these are remaining the same. 

Area One: Health

1) Work out five times a week for 30 minutes or more. Yoga twice a week.  Something else three times a week. 

*2)  Drink at least sixteen ounces of water before lunch and sixteen ounces of water after lunch every day. 

Area Two: Professional

*1) Apply to a new job at least once a week until I have a new job. 

2) Forget responding to emails in a timely manner. Just figure out how to organize the email inbox for my volunteer gig. 

Area Three: Communication

1) Continue to post in my blog at least twice a week.

2) Continue to write a note to K/D/M once a month.

3) Keep lists of snail mail I send and books I read.

*4) Text T/T/M every week

Area Four: Post-Pandemic Reentry

1) Visit a new park/nature preserve/outdoor space at least once a quarter.

*2) Visit my mom.

*3) Have people over to our house at least once - for a game night, dinner, or just a hangout. We can't keep ourselves in a bubble forever.

*4) Buy more KN-95 masks. For a while I thought I could get away without them, but I'm still not comfortable going into public places without a mask, so here we go again.

Area Five: Miscellaneous

*1) Keep track of mileage walked with the dog. 

*2) Create a document for Dr. BB in the event of my untimely death. Inspired by Suzanne's post.

*3) Donate $50 a month to a local charity. 

*4) Brush the dog and cat's teeth. I did a great job in the first quarter when I tracked it, but when I stopped tracking, I stopped doing it, so I'm adding it back.


How are your quarterly goals going? Are you setting any new one for the third quarter?