The Time for Change
A girl in the world
Friday, March 21, 2025
Five For Friday, Edition #18
Thursday, March 20, 2025
Here Be Dragons (Welsh Princes #1) by Sharon Kay Penman
Wales is a divided country in the thirteenth century. And there's the pesky English king always trying to garner territory for England by invading Wales. In this doorstop of a book (700 pages! tiny font!), we follow Prince Llewelyn as he forges a truce with the English king by marrying the king's illegitimate daughter Joanna. Does it take 200 pages to get to our main characters even meeting? Yes, yes, it does. Does that mean that this book had a slow start? Yes, yes, it does. Did I forgive that slow start when I had to start covering my eyes every few pages because something else terrible was going to happen? Yes, yes, I did.
I don't know if I can recommend this book wholeheartedly because it does take 200 pages before the real action starts. BUT! If you like Ken Follett and his world of historical fiction that reads like a soap opera, I think you'll find this scratches the same itch. I was so invested in Llewelyn and Joanna and I was so upset when they started to get old because I KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS.
Reader, I might read the other books in the trilogy. Even though they are also both over 500 pages long. 4.5/5 stars
Lines of note:
Llewelyn followed Joanna to the window, where the light was better. Although his outdoor sight was still eagle-keen, as he moved into his late forties he was becomingly increasingly farsighted. Knowing that, and knowing, too, that he was somewhat sensitive about it, Joanna elected to read Isabelle's letter aloud. (page 529)
I feel personally attacked about my eyesight.
"Fretting about time's passing will now slow it down one whit." (page 689)
Right. I must remind myself that growing old is a privilege.
Things I looked up:
corrody (page 86) - a lifetime allowance of food and clothing, and often shelter and care, granted by an abbey, monastery, or other religious house. While rarely granted in the modern era, corrodies were common in the Middle Ages
plight troth (page 120 and elsewhere) - to make a promise of marriage
alaunt hound (page 214 and elsewhere) - an extinct type of dog which came in different forms with the original possibly having existed in North Caucasus, Central Asia and Europe from ancient times. This type of dog may have been developed by the Alans, and was renowned primarily for its quality as a large-game catch dog, and as a war dog and guard dog.
distraint (page 451) - the seizure of someone's property to obtain payment of rent or other money owed, especially in common law countries
suzeraity (page 476) - includes the rights and obligations of a person, state, or other polity which controls the foreign policy and relations of a tributary state but allows the tributary state internal autonomy
lazar house (page 572) - leper colony
malmsey (page 644) - type of wine
Hat mentions:
None
Dragon mentions (I remained convinced until roughly page 500 that dragons would suddenly appear):
The pages were bringing in the subtlety, a spun-sugar creation sculptured to resemble a flame-breathing dragon. (page 374)
So it was not elephants at all; it was England. "There have been reports of English dragons, but I've never met anyone who actually saw one, Davydd," (page 473)
As a point of interest, the title of this book has its roots in the common practice of medieval cartographers; when a mapmaker had drawn upon all of his geographical knowledge, he would neatly letter across the void beyond: Here be dragons. I found the symbolism hard to resist, given how very little the English of the thirteenth century knew of Wales and the Welsh. Then, too, the national emblem of Wales is a winged red dragon, much like those heraldic dragons once emblazoned upon the banners of her princes. (page 704)
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Would you read an entire trilogy about wars in Wales a thousand years ago?
Wednesday, March 19, 2025
The Bee Sting by Paul Murray
My second big book of the year was The Big Sting by Paul Murray. I listened to an audiobook that J was kind enough to give to me via Audible. In this post, lots of people said that they liked this book, including Nance and Nicole, so I've spent the last month or so listening to it.
Lines of note:
"There's a hundred and one things could bring it down," Victor says. "Aging infrastructure, storms, solar flares, nuclear attack, unforeseen black swan event. Why would it stay it up? That's the question you should be asking." (Wolf's Lair: Part 1)
I think about the electrical grid and the water supply ALL THE TIME. It would be SO EASY to destroy the way the world works.
You could hardly even call it a village Ballyroe: two pubs and a combine repair shop. (The Widow Bride II: Part 3)
As someone who grew up in a rural area, this resonated with me.
"A drought, a flood, whatever it is, harvests fail and the next year they fail again. Suddenly what you're looking at in Europe is a famine. It might not be what they're calling it on the news, but that's what it is. It's worse in Ireland because we're a little island that imports half its food. Now you've been wise. You've stocked up enough to feed your family for a year. Please God, that'll get you out the other end of it. There you are, sitting at home, patting yourself on the back and thinking that things could be worse when the neighbors come knocking on your door. You want to help them. Of course you do. You're a good man, Dickie Barnes, everyone knows it. But food to feed your family for a year is only enough to feed two families for six months. That's just the beginning. Then the doorbells goes again. More neighbors, more friends, three families, four. You bring them in, too. You can feed everybody for four months, for three months. What happens the next time the bell rings? How many families live within five miles of here would you say? Ten? Twenty? A hundred? You see what I'm driving at? And when you decide you can't feed any more, what happens then? When you stop answering your door, what do you think they do? Starvin' people on your doorstep. You think they're just going to turn around and go home? You think just because they're your friends and neighbors that'll it all stay peaceful and respectful? You think Myanmar and South Sudan weren't all how you do and tidy towns before they started hacking each other to pieces?" (The Clearing VI)
And this is why I'm going to take myself out in the event of a long-lasting catastrophe. (Looks at the news. Realizes that maybe I shouldn't be broadcasting my suicide plans in 2025.)
"Who, listening to that story," he said, "could maintain that progress had failed? Isn't it truer to say that progress needs failure? That progress is what humans do with failure? Failure, bad news, dark times, these are as fuel...progress takes failure and turns it into the future." (The Clearing VII)
I truly hope this is true.
There are days that simply don't happen even when you're in them. The buildings are paper mache. The people are extras. You feel like you're trapped in a filler episode. Throw coffee in someone's face. Wave your tits at the lecturer. Jump in front of a car. By tomorrow it will be all forgotten. But in the moment it is endless like crawling through the desert. (Age of Loneliness I, first Cass chapter)
Doesn't everyone feel this way all the time? Like you're just an extra in a movie that's being made about the more interesting people in your life?
Maybe every era has an atrocity woven into its fabric. Maybe every society is complicit in terrible things and only afterwards gets around to pretending they didn't know. When the kids ask, tell them that no one meant any harm...He can still make out the tide marks from the flood, a once in a century event, that's what you are told. Then came the drought. And that was once in a century, too. Maybe that's how it will go. Instead of one definitive cataclysm, a series of anomalies, each time lasting longer with the stretches of what you call normal life becoming further and further apart until one day it dawns on you that this is normal life now - the flooding, the empty shelves, the candlelight, the networks down, the impassable streets, the sewage in your living room, schools closed, work closed, cuz what use is work now? (Age of Loneliness I, first Dickie chapter)
So grim.
You go to class and discuss famous poems. The poems are full of swans, gorse, blackberries, leopards, elderflowers, mountains, orchards, moonlight, wolves, nightingales, cherry blossoms, bog oak, lily pads, honeybees. Even the brand new ones are jampacked with nature. It's like the poets are not living in the same world as you. You put your hand up and say "isn't it weird that poets just keep going around noticing nature and not ever noticing that nature is shrinking? To read these poems, you would think that the world was as full of nature as it ever was even though in the last forty years so many animals and habitats have been wiped out? How come they don't notice that? How come they don't notice everything that's been annihilated if they're so into noticing things? I look around and all I see is a world being ruined. If poems were true they'd just be about walking through a giant graveyard or a garbage dump." (Age of Loneliness I, second Cass chapter)
Ha ha ha. Maybe she should read the orange poem.
The fact is that people do terrible things every day and the world goes on. They commit atrocities and then resume their ordinary humdrum lives. In real terms, a death is practically non-existent. (Age of Loneliness III)
Bleak.
Things I looked up:
Baffin Island (Wolf's Lair: Part 2) - in the Canadian territory of Nunavut, is the largest island in Canada, the second-largest island in the Americas (behind Greenland), and the fifth-largest island in the world
On the radio, Larry Gogan playing Boyzone on The Golden Hour like everything was normal. (The Widow Bride II: Part 1)
Lorcan "Larry" Gogan was an Irish broadcaster working for RTÉ. His show was The Golden Hour, during which he played old favorites and classic songs from yesteryear. Boyzone was an Irish boy band created in 1993.
The grey squirrel is not native to Ireland. The species was introduced to the country just over a century ago when a dozen arrived in a wicker hamper at Castle Forbes as a wedding present from the Duke of Buckingham. After the wedding breakfast, one of the daughters of the family opened the hamper on the lawn of the estate. the squirrels hopped out and scurried away into the woods. From there, like some fable of colonialism they have spread through almost the entire country. The native red squirrel...has almost vanished. The greys carry a virus, squirrel pox. They are immune to it, but the reds are not. It give them lesions around their mouths so they can't eat. After a week, it's killed them. (The Clearing IV)
This appears to be a true story. Genetic research has determined that all the grey squirrels in Ireland are related back the original 12 animals brought to the island in 1911.
Komorebi is the Japanese word for the kind of light you see in the forest. (The Clearing IV)
“Komorebi” is a Japanese word that means the play of sunlight through leaves. True facts in the book!
Hat mentions:
She spent her days excavating her walk in wardrobe laying out gloves, hats, scarves, blouses, dresses, jeans, skirts...(Sylvias II: Part 1)
He wore a woolly hat all year round. (The Widow Bride II: Part 2)
A baby? Well, that put the tin hat on it, didn't it? (The Widow Bride II: Part 5)
The old library is full of tourists wearing bucket hats carrying shopping bags that carry the college crest, the past for sale (The Clearing II)
brim of her hat (The Clearing V)
It is the weird tree with the witch's hat gouge in its side. (The Clearing VIII)
"Ugh, that hat. Rapist. Klan. Serial killer. Another rapist." (Age of Loneliness I, first Cass chapter)
"That hat is insane. It's like a satellite dish." (Age of Loneliness I, first Cass chapter)
A group in wizard hats traipses noisily over the square. (Age of Loneliness I, first Cass chapter)
Tuesday, March 18, 2025
Photo Every Hour 3/17/2025
5:30am - The alarm went off and I read some of the book on my Kindle. The book is The Bookish Life of Nina Hill by Abbi Waxman and boy do I have some hot takes about this book. Just wait for that rant-filled review.
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They're building a structure with electricity to help folks hold parties in the park. That's what you see behind her. |
12:27pm - Doing yoga in the student union!
I forgot in the one o'clock hour because I was in a meeting with a university bigwig for most of it. Imagine me just staring at the computer screen and taking myself on and off mute to answer questions.
2:52pm - I'm at work. This is a hallway at work.
3:50pm - I lost the back to one of my earrings. I am contemplating the best way for me to get my earring back home without losing it.
4:51pm - I am home from work! The girls literally cannot be bothered to greet me.
5:15pm - Does it surprise anyone that Hannah and I are on an after-work walk?
6:12pm - I did a quick workout so I was a bit late feeding Hannah. She was not pleased.
8:48-8:55pm - On a walk with Hannah after we got home and put the groceries away. All of these photos are boring or bad, so I'm just leaving this here.
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"Hannah, cuddle up next to me so it looks like you aren't scared of me." "No, bitch." |
9:27pm - Filling in my line of the day journal before taking a shower and going to bed. Can I get into bed before 10? Let's hope so.
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What's the best thing you did yesterday?
Monday, March 17, 2025
Empire of Sand (The Books of Ambha #1) by Tasha Suri
The Books of Ambha duology by Tasha Suri is on the Reddit list of Top Books by Women. Empire of Sand is the first book in that series.
Mehr is the illegitimate daughter of the Governor. Her mother was Amrithi, a desert nomad. Amrithi are outcasts, not welcomed into the Empire's society. But Mehr has Amrithi power, an ability to harness the power of the desert storms and when her power is noted, she is soon married in order to harness that power, although that power is used for evil. Now she and her husband Amun must trust in one another to survive.
The writing was beautiful. But this book was a slog with the same things happening over and over again and there were scenes of what I thought of as unnecessarily graphic violence. I think this is a style situation where if that style is your jam, that's great. It's not a book for me. I did like the slow burn romance, but I also question whether or not Mehr would have fallen in love with anyone who was kind to her.
The magic of this world is super interesting, though. I wish I had loved this book because I am curious about what's going to happen with the magic in the next book. I glanced at the description of the next book and it looks like it's about Mehr's younger sister and it's almost 500 pages. Hmmm. I'm not sure I'm invested enough to continue.
3/5 stars
Lines of note:
Mehr woke up to a soft voice calling her name. Without thought, she reached a hand beneath her pillow and closed her fingers carefully around the hilt of her dagger. (location 72)
What an opening line!
Mehr was suddenly quite sure that if she could have chosen her own suitor instead of being drawn into the mystics’ net, she would have selected the kind of man who did not answer a question with a question. She wanted a truthful man, a straightforward one. She wanted someone who would not make a game of her life. (location 1363)
I mean, I think that's fair.
“The bonds that tie people together change who they are,” Mehr said. “They have to.” (location 2955)
Do you think this is true? Do you think that every interaction you have with someone changes you?
Mehr had significant experience in keeping her head lowered and her mouth silent. In that moment, she chose to put the skill to good use. (location 4417)
I should learn this skill.
Hat mentions:
None
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Is there a book you can think of that has great writing, but that just didn't hit for you?
Thursday, March 13, 2025
Starter Villain by John Scalzi
Who knows where I even stumbled upon Starter Villain by John Scalzi? If it was you, thanks for the recommendation.
The dedication of this book reads:
Everyone who could make someone else's day worse, but tries to make it better instead.
Thank you. It's more important than you think.
Also, to Sugar, Spice, and Smudge, my current set of cats.
You are all a real pain in my ass, and I love your stupid furry faces.
Tuesday, March 11, 2025
Crow Mary by Kathleen Grissom
I read Crow Mary by Kathleen Grissom mostly based on Birchie's recommendation.
In 1872, sixteen-year-old Goes First, a Crow girl, marries a white fur trader named Abe Farwell after her Crow betrothed is killed during a hunt. Their marriage is mostly happy, with Abe appreciating his wife's ability to live on the land, hunt, and be a cool cucumber in trade negotiations. He renames her Mary and they travel doing trading things. Abe's goal is to have a ranch and he's trading during boom times to earn that money. And this is their story. It's filled with battles and bravery and lots of drunk people and descriptions of really disgusting sounding food.
I was riveted by this book. What was going to happen next? Where were they going to go? How many times would someone take off their hat to wipe their brow? Would there be more justice in Canada than in the United States?
This story is based on true events and I was super interested in the author's note about how she was uncomfortable writing this book as a white woman, but how she really embedded herself in the research. I was happy to read about how she had reached out to the family of the real Goes First, as well as other indigenous experts and leaders. Thumbs up to this page turner.
"Oh, Goes First," she said, "men are all the same. Tell them every day that they are the biggest and strongest and best provider, and they will seldom come home with a second wife." (page 61)