What were your overall thoughts on this book?
Here's what I think:
- The POVs were too similar so it was impossible to keep the characters straight. The fact that the POV changed in every chapter made it even worse.
- I didn't want to spend time in this world. The people were mean, the subject was heavy, and I was just not interested in being there.
- I thought this book was graphic and gross. It wasn't just the food descriptions, although that didn't help.
- The writing was both elliptical and unclear and also heavy handed at times. There were times she was sort of oblique about what was going on (see: the watermelon scene and the two sentence abortion mention in "Waiting Between the Trees") and other times when her use of imagery and metaphor hit you over the head. I don't know. I didn't love the writing style.
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Pop culture:
There's a 1993 movie starring Tsai Chin, Kieu Chinh, Lisa Lu, France Nuyen, Rosalind Chao, Lauren Tom, Tamlyn Tomita, and Ming-Na Wen. I've heard of none of these people. I bet no one is shocked to learn that I have not watched the movie, but the plot seems to follow the the book fairly closely. A few differences:
- In the movie, Lena and Harold get divorced and Lena has a new relationship.
- Rose and Ted get back together in the movie.
Has anyone seen the movie?
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TJLC questions to ponder:
1) Which of the characters did you identify with the most? Why?
2) While the book has been critically received positively for the most part, there are some criticisms that the book leans into stereotypical portrayals of Asian men and some aspects of parenthood. Do you think this book challenges stereotypes or leans into them?
3) I hate to keep harping on the structure of this book, but why do you think Tan structured it this way using parables as framing devices for each section? What would have changed if the book had been told chronologically or through back-to-back chapters featuring mother and daughters?
4) What does the book tell us about American culture? About American immigrant culture?
5) In the first chapter, June discusses her mother's take on the elements that make people:
Each person is made of five elements, she told me.
Too much fire and you have a bad temper. ..
Too little wood and you bent too quickly to listen to other people's ideas...
Too much water and you flowed in too many directions...
How do you think these elements are used to establish personality traits in the rest of the book?
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Most iconic line poll:
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That's a wrap on 2025 CBBC! Thanks for joining and participating.
I'm so glad this book is done. I didn't like anyone, though I could admire the strength in some of the mothers. I want to shake some sense into the daughters. It was compelling to read- I did finish it in an afternoon, but I never want to read it again. Ignoring your prompts because it would make me open up and browse the book again.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I do find interesting is that the moms rarely told their daughters what life was like for them when they were younger, unless circumstances forced it. My own parents ( not immigrants, mind) were like that. They grew up in the depression and WWII, and would only mention some funny things about their youth, rarely anything bad. Sort like how the moms in this book lived through awful things, but they set their faces forward and tried not to dwell what could not be changed.
Basically at the 75% mark my status was "I've fallen and I can't get up". I'm still interested in trying the movie to see if I can make sense of the book for myself.
ReplyDeleteRegardless of the outcome, It was fun to hang out and read together!
TJLC tells such a human saga... I love and respect this book so much for all that it opened me up to. I'd always thought of it as one of those great novels that bridged cultural gaps... Like Kingsolver's Poisonwood Bible in the sense that specifics cease to matter, because of the universal truths calling out to readers... So sorry that it wasn't that kind of reading experience for you all here. Good luck with the next book!
ReplyDeleteI really loved this book. I found it so moving, the exploration both of the complex mother-daughter bonds and the look into Chinese immigrant culture. I found the backstory of four women coming together for decades to be very poignant. I always enjoy reading about cultures that are different from my own, and so I really enjoyed this. I also thought it was a great look into how humans can move forward through unspeakable things. It's also a really great timepiece. It's very late 80s. One of the scenes has to do with Waverly talking about the fear of getting AIDS from a gay hairdresser, and I do clearly remember that kind of ignorance in that time period. People really thought that way, and that scene brought me back to that time of ignorance and intolerance.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed this book, though admit it was confusing as all get out. I took notes and I think that was the main reason I managed to muddle my way through the book (it allowed me to keep track of which daughter belonged to which mother, etc).
ReplyDeleteI rated it 4/5 stars.
I feel like this book leaned into most stereotypes? Or at least the stereotypes I've come across. I'm curious what other people thing about this...
So I had mixed feeling about this book while reading it. Basically once I read the section for that week, i wasn't compelled to pick it up again. But then when I did, I got engrossed in each story. That's how I eventually read this book, as a collection of short stories. The relationships between the characters and which daughter went to which mother were too confusing, so I just gave up on that. I can't even imagine it as a movie, because to me it didn't have a linear plot.
ReplyDeleteOverall I liked the writing. I found it to be sad, so I can't say I exactly enjoyed reading it. But I'm glad we read it for book club, because I wouldn't have read it otherwise, and I think it was worth it.
Thank you for hosting book club as always, Engie! You do a great job.