Monday, November 25, 2024

Euphoria by Lily King

Euphoria by Lily King was our book club book for our last 2024 meeting. I was not there when this book was chosen because I was sick for our last book club meeting, but I assure you that I would have tried to pick a different book because my feelings about Writers and Lovers, another Lily King joint, made me want to scream in frustration. But I was not there, so Euphoria was chosen and I got the library book right away, but then I sort of forgot that book club was last Sunday, so grabbed the audiobook with one of my two November Hoopla loans, and listened to it while I was walking the dog and cooking over the course of a few days. 

And here's the what what. I do not care for Lily King. LOL. 

This book was set in New Guinea and follows three anthropologists, a married couple and a single man, who are studying indigenous peoples. Eh. I didn't care about these people. Here we are, in a fascinating, interesting setting, and King focuses on the love triangle among the white people? FFS. 

2.5/5 stars (Note: I think this is not the author for me.)

Lines of note:

She'd ask next about the rest of the family, so I thought I should head her off. "Everyone else is dead so she seems to have a great deal of energy for me."
"Who is everybody else?"
"My father and brothers."
"How?"
There was an American anthropologist for you. No delicate changing of the subject, no You have my deepest condolences or even How ghastly for you, but just a no-nonsense, straight-on How the heck did that happen? (page 47-48)

Americans could surprise you with the things they knew. (page 70)

You wouldn't know that King is an American with lines like this. 

But I don't trust a crowd - hundreds of people together without cognition and only the basest impulses: food, drink, sex. Fen claims that if you just let go of your brain you find another brain, the group brain, the collective brain, and that it is an exhilarating form of human connection that we have lost in our embrace of the individual except when we go to war. Which is my point exactly. (page 161)

My husband HATES crowds. If there are more than twenty people in a room, I think he's convinced that Nazi salutes are about to break out. You should see his extreme discomfort at games when "The Star-Spangled Banner" is played. 

I loved the sound of our two typewriters; it felt like we were in a band, making a strange sort of music. It felt like I was a part of something, and that the work was important. She always made me feel that the work was important. (page 208)

I like it when my husband and I are both clickety clacketing on our keyboards, too. 

I thought we had time. Despite everything, I believed somehow there was time. Love's first mistake. Perhaps love's only mistake. Time for you and time for me, though I never did warm to Eliot. (page 212)

This is the poem referenced here, if you're interested. 

Things I looked up:

quai (page 88) - a structure used by boats and ships for taking on or landing cargo and passengers, usually found along riverbanks

pinnace (page 88) - a small boat, with sails or oars, forming part of the equipment of a warship or other large vessel

Vailala Madness (page 88) - a social movement in the Territory of Papua, beginning in the later part of 1919 and declining after 1922; tt was the first well-documented cargo cult (diverse spiritual and political movements that arose among indigenous Melanesians following Western colonization of the region in the late 19th century. Most cargo cult groups were led by charismatic prophet figures foretelling an imminent cataclysm and/or a coming utopia for followers—a worldview known as millenarianism) - This is a rabbit hole I could have spent hours on, but I'm stopping here for now. 

calaboose (page 108) - jail, frequently a synonym for local jail

blackbirding (page 108) - the act or practice of kidnapping people, especially Pacific Islanders, and selling them into slavery abroad, usually in Australia

Hat mentions (why hats?): 

"Nellie?" my mother said. "Are you all right?" and apparently I said, "I've spit on your dresses and I've spit on your hats and now I'm waiting for more spit." (page 69)

"That is a best less seemly than spitting on hats, isn't it?" (page 69)

My heart starts racing - and then I remember that it has all already played out and I see her standing at the quai in Marseille in her blue hat and I see me coming off the ship with Fen. (page 88)

H in her blue hat on the quai, her lips quivering: I've left Stanley, her first words to me, and then Fen not giving us the time he'd promised me, coming up right behind me, leaving no doubt, no room for an explanation. (page 94)

She jumped up, flashed out of one mosquito room and into the other, and returned with hat, pipe, and camera. (page 163)

That was how I made the long walk past these display cases, past an enormous blowup of the photograph Fen had taken of Nell and me with my big suitcase and his pipe and hat and sago fronts across our shoulders. (page 256)

Then we put Nell in the hat with the cases and the pipe and took a few more. (page 164)

22 comments:

  1. I liked Writers and Lovers so maybe I would like this! I have such a big stack right now I can't possibly add more (but maybe will put it on my TBR list, I do like this author!).

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    1. Coming back here to say I DID read this book, in 2022, and I gave it a 4.5 star rating. Lol, I thought the plot sounded familiar.

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    2. Ha ha ha! Our taste in books is so different.

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  2. I also like Writers and Lovers, and I like the quotes you included from this book. I probably won't be rushing out to acquire it, but if it somehow came my way, I would read it.

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  3. When I said "I also liked Writers and Lovers" I was referring to the comment above btw. Just in case you're like "What the heck?? I just spent the whole review talking about how I DIDN'T like that book."

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    1. I knew you were talking about Nicole's comment! I don't think you'd love this book, to be honest.

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  4. I just want to say that "The Love Song of J Alfred Prufrock" is, quite possibly, my favourite poem of all time.

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    1. I put in the work to figure out which poem it was. I'm glad I did!

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  5. I am pretty sure we read this for book club, too. I only gave it 3 stars which is pretty "meh" for me. But I really liked Writers & Lovers so this author can work for me at times. But she's definitely very character driven which I think is generally not your jam.

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    1. Character driven has to be done much better than this for it to be my jam. LOL. I think I just don't vibe with Lily King and that's fine. Others seem to enjoy her.

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  6. This book is so, so special to me because we read it for book club when my mom lived with me and she read it too and came to book club with me. I'll never forget how she isolated a quote about how the protagonist's husband wasn't good with fragile artifacts (I"m paraphrasing) that was the key to some of the marital dynamic we're guessing at.

    It gave me pause when you described the book as a "love triangle among the white people" and I think that's fair... but there're also a lot of self-aware messages about the missteps in early anthropology, how close it came to eugenics and Nazi ideology, and all that. It would be a solid 4.5 from me.

    Or maybe my emotional attachment to the book is overwhelming my critical eval?

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    1. Oh, INTERESTING. I actually think the OPPOSITE. There wasn't nearly enough of the work of anthropology in the book. I wanted them to reflect MORE on what they were doing. There were a few scenes when Nell was doing anthropology (a scene where she was watching women during a party and when she was hanging out with kids) and I wanted more explanation of what she was getting out of that. But no. It was always very superficial. I guess the author isn't actually an anthropologist, so maybe that explains it. The book always sidled back to the love story/domestic violence storylines. As an exploration of domestic violence, it was super weak. One of my book club members didn't even realize what was going on until we spelled it out for her.

      The self-awareness about eugenics, etc. didn't really happen until the last chapter!

      I don't know, Maya. I think we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one.

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  7. I've not read this book (or Writers and Lovers). Does your book club pick books out a month in advance? Ours chooses the book in Nov for the upcoming year, which works for me because sometimes one book isn't at the library and I read them out of order. Some months are too busy and I wouldn't have time to get to it.

    I thought I heard on the news this morning that it was national hat day, but google says it's not till Jan. 15th. I wonder what they were referencing on the news this morning. My mom has always hated crowds too. She was so uncomfortable the year she took us downtown to the Air and Water Show. Mob scene.

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    1. Yes, we pick the books for the next month at the end of each meeting. So if you're not present, you don't really get a say! I would NOT be cool with having a book list at the beginning of the year because that really would seem like homework to me and like we couldn't choose a hot new title if it came out.

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  8. Ooh, I have this book but haven't been able to finish it! I spent nearly five years in West Papua when I was growing up and I am always looking for books set in that part of the world. Until now I have mostly read books set in and around WWII (eg. A Town Like Alice and Empire of the Sun). I was interested in the treatment of early anthropology in Euphoria and descriptions of people from the island but could not get past the first few chapters. I had the same feeling as you NGS, but Maya your message makes me want to try again. I will!

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    1. We'd really like this book so much better if we read it through Maya's lens!

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  9. I don't think I've read any Lily King. I learned about cargo cults in Anthropology in first year (my prof was just back from doing field work in Papua New Guinea) and found the subject fascinating - Scientology parallel?

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    1. I couldn't stop myself from the Wikipedia rabbit hole on cargo cults. I'd never even heard the term. I should have taken an Intro to Anthro class like everyone else did, I guess!

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  10. I have read this book sometime this year too and and I agree with your assessment. I was looking forward to learning about the work of an anthropologist and the cultures they study but its all about the white people who do questionable things at times. And this very unneccisarrery love triangle...

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    1. Questionable things!! That's definitely one way to put it.

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  11. I did not love Euphoria or Writers and Lovers, so I think King is also a solid "meh" for me too! Actually I think Euphoria was one of my first audiobooks, and I "read" it for a Bookriot Read Harder challenge! I did not enjoy the challenge, and I did not really enjoy the audiobook either. I actually just went to look at my review and this is what I had to say: I found it predictable and the characters were a tad annoying. Well, there you go.

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    1. Yeah, I'm plugging along on my Pop Sugar Reading Challenge, but I'm finding that I am not enjoying a lot of the prompts. *sigh* I want to do challenges because they force me to read books I wouldn't normally read, but...I just want to read books I love.

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