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Wednesday, August 12, 2026
Cleanup on Aisle Five by Ann Larson
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Friday, August 07, 2026
Five for Friday, Edition #47
1) Last weekend we went to the Wisconsin Dells with my husband's family. There were twelve adults and eleven children in one VRBO. It was an eight bedroom, four bath building with a kitchen that was smaller than it probably should have been, but there was an arcade with old-fashioned game cabinets in the basement. If you aren't from the upper Midwest, you might not have heard of the Dells, so let me describe it to you. It's a weird tourist-y area with lots of theme parks, especially water parks, and duck boat rides. There's also anything your childlike wonder would like to do - go-karts, ziplining, mini golf, whatever.
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| VRBO decor |
Our niblings are aged nine to nineteen and every single one of them had a fabulous time.
If anyone wants to know, we went to Noah's Ark on a Thursday. It was a typical water park with long lines, but the kids had a good time. We rented a cabana and there was always an adult there for the kids to check in with. On Friday, we went to Land of Natura, which is not a typical water park. It's a man-made salt lake with huge inflatables that you climb on and because the lake is deep (up to 25 feet in places), our boys spent most of the day practicing dives, backflips, and somersaults. It was also COLD AND RAINY when went (what do I mean by cold? mid-60s! in July!), so that kept down the crowds. I swear our party made up about a third of the people there. Regardless, most kids said Land of Natura was their favorite part of the weekend, so if you're in the Dells and you have confident swimmers, this is a good option.
2) Dells Escape Rooms - We had two big groups do different escape rooms. One group was a bunch of the kids with their grandfather and his wife. The rest was our oldest niece (19) and people of my generation. Both teams managed to escape, although I have to admit our room only had like twenty seconds to spare. LOL. If you like escape rooms, these ones are pretty fun. (You might note that I'm wearing a hoodie and my husband is wearing pants. WE WERE ALL VERY COLD. None of us were prepared for how cold it was that weekend.)
3) Where were the girls when we were in the Dells? I'm glad you asked. Zelda stayed at home and our neighbor came by every day to give her wet food and clean her box. ALSO! SHE READS TO THE CAT. No wonder Zelda ignored us completely when we came home.
Hannah? Hannah was at the swank boarding place just outside Chicago where they take 80 pictures of her doing nothing every day. Maybe I should have put all these photos in some sort of collage, BUT NO, you have to scroll by each one.
Nicole talks about how Rex comes back from boarding like he was at a frat party with messed up fur and fleas or whatever. Hannah came back with a powerful thirst, a smell like she has never had a bath in her life, and refusing to eat food. So, that's something, I guess.
4) Our side and backyard recently became deer daycare. I cannot stress enough to you how crazy this is because WE LIVE IN TOWN. ON A BUSY ROAD. The deer overpopulation here is nuts.
5) Anniversaries - Earlier this week was the one year anniversary of my mother's death. I am, in a very healthy fashion, ignoring this fact.
6) Giveaway winners - The giveaway winners are Lisa and Jenny! Congratulations! I'll send those packages out in the mail sometime in the next week or so.
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What I Spent: July 2026
As a reminder, my husband pays the "big bills" like mortgage, phone, car, and electricity. I pay for groceries and the pets and that somehow evens things out. We recently switched so that he pays for Costco trips. Here's how things shook out last month.
Cars ($36.36, 1.4%) - I bought gas once.
Donation ($40, 1.6%) - I won an item at a silent auction at a fundraiser. *shrug*
Clothing ($45.90, 1.8%) - Look, I bought a shirt at the Grown Up Book Fair. I COULDN'T RESIST.
Eating out ($51, 2%) - I bought coffee FIVE times, went to lunch once, and got an appetizer at a happy hour once. Also, there was food at trivia at the book fair. #noregrets
Entertainment ($59, 2.3%) - This is my Spotify subscription, a book I bought, some craft supplies I bought to make friendship bracelets with my nieces when we were on vacation, and giant dice.
Fitness ($70.60, 2.8%) - Fitness classes.
Savings ($300, 11.9%) - Sometimes you think you'll do better at savings and YOU NEVER DO.
Bills ($306.91, 12.2%) - Water/sewer and insurance for the house and cars.
Pets ($325.20, 12.9%) - This is food for both of them and some steroids for the cat. Don't worry, though, if you thought "that seems low for NGS's girls" because I had to pick up Hannah from boarding where she was for six days which means I've already spent more than this in August.
Personal care ($356.92, 14.2%) - I got a hair cut, a pedicure, and had to buy things like toothbrush heads and sunscreen, which is stupidly expensive. I also got manicures for me and my husband and a pedicure for my niece when we were on vacation. YOLO, you know?
Gifts ($396.29, 15.7%) - This was crazy even for me, but blame the book fair, me buying more than $180 worth of stamps to avoid a price hike, birthday, and graduation gifts. When I write it out, it actually seems more than reasonable.
Groceries ($533.70, 21.2%) - People in this house continue to eat EVERY SINGLE DAY.
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Did you buy new clothing last month? Have to buy something boring like toothbrush heads that upset you by being stupid expensive?
Wednesday, August 05, 2026
July 2026 Accountability Buddy
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime*
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| Source. The Langholf. July 20, 2026. What. A. Weekend. Facebook post. (I hope I did this citation correctly. If I didn't, I hope the Langholf won't sue me.) |
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| My set-up at home. I want everyone to note the candle on the table EVEN THOUGH IT'S A GAZILLION DEGREES. |
Tuesday, August 04, 2026
What I Read: July 2026
I didn't have a ton of time for reading this month, but what time I did have I spent with some very good books.
7/1: The Unseen World by Liz Moore (library, 2016) - Very good. I recommend this one, especially if you want a good cry. 4.5/5 stars
7/6: The Spellshop (Spellshop #1) by Sarah Beth Durst (library ebook, 2024) - Nice cozy fantasy. 4.5/5 stars
7/11: Kittentits by Holly Wilson (university library, 2024) - What a ride. I don't know if I liked it exactly, but it was not boring. 3.5/5 stars
7/12: Raised by Ghosts by Brianna Loewinsohn (library, 2025) - Graphic novel about a girl growing up with divorced parents in the '90s. Quiet, but powerful. If you know a teen/tween girl going through it, this might be a good addition to their library. 4/5 stars
7/16: The Enchanted Greenhouse (Spellshop #2) by Sarah Beth Durst (library ebook, 2025) - Lovely cozy fantasy. TINY DRAGONS. 4.5/5 stars
7/18: The Phone Book: The Curious History of the Book That Everyone Uses But No One Reads by Ammon Shea (university library, 2010) - Look, sometimes you want to read a book about a book no one still owns. 4/5 stars
7/23: Ella Minnow Pea: A Progressively Lipogramatic Epistolary Fable by Mark Dunn (library, 2001) - Scarily prophetic. 5/5 stars
7/25: Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin (library, 2009) - Sometimes you read a Newbery Honors book and remember that Newbery likes preachy books. For heaven's sake. There was a dragon, though, so that's a thing a did like. 3/5 stars
Average star rating: 4.13/5 stars
Picture book I read:
Bog Myrtle by Sid Sharp - A children's book about sustainability, environmentalism, labor rights, and just being a nice person? Sign me up. What a fun ride. A guest on the Sarah's Bookshelves podcast recommended this book and I am glad she did! (Yes, I'm aware that I called the Grace Lin book preachy, but this one somehow I liked a lot. I'm full of contradictions.)
Did Not Finish:
Shadow Speaker by Nnedi Okorafor (The Desert Magician's Duology #1) - I listened to 80 minutes of this before I gave up. Not quick enough world building for me. DNF at 13%.
The Wolf Den by Elodie Harper (Wolf Den Trilogy #1) - I do not need to read about women being abused and sexually mistreated. Some books are not for some readers. (DNF at 5.1%)
Ornithologist's Field Guide to Love (Love's Academic #1) by India Holton - My audiobook game is lame. DNF at 12%.
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I desperately need a good audiobook. What recommendations do you have for me?
Monday, August 03, 2026
Photo Every Day: July 2026, Week 4
Thursday, July 23 - This time of year we sometimes have tiny ants come inside our house, especially in our shoddily constructed addition. We use Terro bait traps and they do a pretty good job. However, a certain feline was playing with the trap, which WE DO NOT WANT, so Dr. BB had to construct a solution. A Chewy box is almost always the solution.
Friday, July 24 - Our new local bookstore had a fun Dungeon Crawler Carl bingo night. It was really quite delightful and we had a good time. I'm really enjoying having a bookstore in town and am basically going to go to every event there I possibly can in order to make sure it survives.
Saturday, July 25 - Is it possible that the only photos I took all day were of my kitty? Yes, yes, it is. Also, we're kind of worried about Zelda Belda. She's not eating well, even though her weight is stable. I'm giving it another week of her weird eating habits before I call the vet. She's on a steroid, which is supposed to increase her appetite, but maybe we need to up her dosage. Poor baby girl.
Sunday, July 26 - This should be illegal. Usually Costco can do no wrong in my world, but this is unacceptable.
Monday, July 27 - I have once again forgotten I was supposed to take a photo every day this month. This is my dog. She's walking before bed. She's not happy about it.
Tuesday, July 28 - You guys. I'm so bad at this. Let's pretend Tuesday didn't exist.
Wednesday, July 29 - Last freshman registration event of the summer! Woot! They have been doing construction in the building we use all summer long and they're redoing some lab spaces. I took a photo to show that the reno is nearly done! Next summer we'll get to use these classroom spaces and we're pretty excited about it.
Thursday, July 30 - Do you want some whiplash? Now we're at a waterpark! My husband's siblings and all their kids are in a Wisconsin family fun area (Wisconsin Dells) and we are doing all the things.
Friday, July 31 - Back at the VRBO, my nieces are attempting to teach me to make friendship bracelets. I have to admit that there was a lot of poking fun at Aunt NGS for not being able to figure this shit out.
Saturday, August 1 - My husband and I took my niece and we got our nails done. Her first manicure! We're obviously building core memories over here.
Sunday, August 2 - I have no words for this. All of the kids are surrounding their grandfather and his wife. Have you ever seen anything so cute?
And that's a wrap on July. Thank heavens because I am bad at remembering to take a photo every day.
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What's a favorite memory you have from July?
Wednesday, July 29, 2026
Things That Have Scared My Dog
Here's a partial list of things that have scared Hannah on our walks in the last month or so. She has either jumped back into my legs or stopped and stared with her tail tucked.
1. A half-full cup of red liquid in a clear plastic McDonald's cup that was tucked in some bushes. (Maybe the smell was bad?)
2. A small landscaping rock that was on the sidewalk. (I mean, it was an unexpected "obstacle" on the sidewalk.)
3. This car. (In her defense, this is the same yard where she once freaked out about a black trash bag on the curb. I touched the bag with my foot to show her it wasn't scary and tried to get her to touch it with her paw. She was NOT having it. A guy comes around the corner and tells me there is a deer carcass in that bag. So. This car might be a legitimate crime scene.)
4. A hummingbird. (It did just sort of come out of nowhere and buzz her. But it's tiny?)
5. This flower. (I cannot defend this one.)
6. Our trail cam. We have a bit of a raccoon problem in our yard. They're using the side of our garage and part of our backyard as a toilet and it's sort of gross. We put up a trail cam to see if they were living in our garage or shed and my husband kept moving the camera. One day he just put in in the driveway facing our shed and Hannah freaked out. HOW DARE IT BE IN HER DRIVEWAY?
Anyway, we've learned that there are a lot of cats in our yard at night, the raccoons use it as a highway to wherever they are going at night, and that our dog cannot handle change in her yard.
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Has anything new taken you by surprise recently? Do you handle it better than Hannah?





















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