Mr. President, How Long Must We Wait? by Tina Cassidy

Mr. President, How Long Must We Wait?: Alice Paul, Woodrow Wilson, and the Fight for the Right to Vote by Tina Cassidy is a non-fiction book in which the subtitle is the entire description of the book. 

I've read Tina Cassidy before. Remember when I read Birth and it became my personality for a long time? Well, I'm publishing this on Thanksgiving Day because I am so grateful for Alice Paul and all she did for women in this country. I don't think there's been a conversation I've had in the last week that didn't start with "In the Alice Paul book..."

Where to start? Alice Paul was a Quaker. She was in England and heard Christabel and Emmeline Pankhurst speak and became radicalized into the suffragette cause in England. During some protests and marches in England Paul was beaten by police and was arrested. She learned tactics of civil disobedience from the Pankhursts, including demanding to be treated as a political prisoner upon arrest, going on hunger strikes, and refusing to put on prisoner's clothing. Paul was force fed in a prison during this time and it led to lifelong health issues.

When Paul returned back to the United States, she became an active member of the National American Woman Suffrage Association (NAWSA) who were pursuing a state by state strategy of obtaining the vote for women. She and Lucy Burns wanted a national amendment and the NAWSA folks did not like this. Paul eventually had to splinter off into her own group. 

Meanwhile, Woodrow Wilson was born on a plantation and came of age during the Civil War and Reconstruction. He was racist and sexist. He earned a doctorate in political science (fun fact: Wilson is the only political scientist who went on to become president). He taught for a bit, particularly at Princeton where he denied Paul admission based on her sex. Then he was governor of New Jersey before he was elected as the 28th President of these United States.

When I was in middle or high school, I wrote a paper on Edith Bolling Galt Wilson, Woodrow Wilson's second wife. Wilson's first wife died while he was in the White House and he met Edith and married her before his first term was up. Men really move on quickly when their wives die, don't they? Anyway, I wrote this paper on her because she basically ran the White House when Wilson had a stroke and I thought their love story was swoony romantic when I was a tween/teen, but listening to this audiobook made me think her internalized misogyny and her adoration of Woodrow was the opposite of swoony romantic. 

This book walks you through Wilson and Paul butting heads. Wilson comes off like a jackass and Paul comes off like a bit of a cold fish, but eventually the 20th Amendment was passed and women could vote in the 1920 election. Suck it, NAWSA. Your strategy didn't work.

Look, this book made me feel so much better about our own world. There are leaders out there. And they can lead to real change in the world. Maybe I wouldn't want to have had dinner with Alice Paul, but I am definitely happy that she was around when she was. 5/5 stars

Things I looked up:

Wilson had the first press conference while president 

1913 Suffrage Procession sounds amazing 

The modern State of the Union began with Wilson - he delivered his before a joint session of Congress - before this, it had been a written report

The planting of cherry trees in Washington DC originated in 1912 as a gift of friendship to the People of the United States from the People of Japan.

Hat mentions (why hats?):

waving their hats, sticks, and handkerchiefs provocatively (Chapter 1)

wearing glasses and a hat  (Chapter 1)

plucked his hat from his head and pelted him with it (Chapter 1)

broad straw hats (Chapter 1)

"You know, no lady goes out without having a hat and a coat and gloves and so on." (Chapter 2) 

beaver tricorn hat (Chapter 2)

hat tipping hand gestures (Chapter 5)

silk top hat (Chapter 5)

dandy hat (Chapter 5)

Paul wore her hat and coat indoors (Chapter 5)

use their hat pins in self-defense (Chapter 6) - I listened to the audio, so I don't know if this was written as hatpins or hat pins

held hats across their hearts (Chapter 6)

high hats from the military, Congress, and several churches (Chapter 6)

pulled on a hat (Chapter 7)

fancy hats decorated with black, white, and iridescent feathers (Chapter 9)

coats, hats, and gloves (Chapter 13)

removed his hat (Chapter 13)

tipped his hat (Chapter 13 x 2)

dropped his hat (Chapter 14)

straw hats (Chapter 15)

broad brimmed hats (Chapter 16)

tipping his hat (Chapter 17)

took off his hat (Chapter 17)

put on their hats and left (Chapter 19)

removed his top hat in their honor (Chapter 20)

tip of his hat (Chapter 20)

yellow rose in her hat (Chapter 21)

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Happy Thanksgiving to my American friends. What is something you are thankful for today?