Friday, February 28, 2025

Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo

 

Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo follows the stories of twelve characters, mostly women who are British and black. One of the characters shares the same first name as me and it's an unusual enough name that I think it might be the only book I've ever read with a character with my name! This is a structure of a book I keep trying to read (see The Great House and Women and Children First), but I guess it's time for me to admit that it doesn't work for me.

You just don't get to spend enough time with the characters. Just as you're settling into a voice and a past and really learning about someone, you move on to a new character. It also sort of feels like each vignette is an afterschool special that's meant to teach us some grand lesson. The writing was interesting and I took down lots of lines of note, but if it's going to bother you that there's not capitalization at the beginning of each paragraph, I wouldn't recommend this. All the other punctuation was as required, so it didn't bother me too much, but I also don't know exactly what the point was. 

3/5 stars

Lines of note:

when they leave uni it’s gonna be with a huge debt and crazy competition for jobs and the outrageous rental prices out there mean her generation will have to move back home forever, which will lead to even more of them despairing at the future and what with the planet about to go to shit with the United Kingdom soon to be disunited from Europe which itself is hurtling down the reactionary road and making fascism fashionable again and it’s so crazy that the disgusting perma-tanned billionaire has set a new intellectual and moral low by being president of America  (location 634)

I mean, this was published in 2019...

her favourite poetry book is called I is a Long Memoried Woman by a Guyanese lady called Grace Nichols (location 3339)

I'm keeping track of books I see in books. It's very meta. 

she and the reading group had a big argument, no, it wasn’t no argument, it was a debate, the other day, about whether a poem was good because they related to it, or whether it was good in and of itself (location 3341)

This sounds like a fun reading group!

Things I looked up:

samizdat (location 300) - the clandestine copying and distribution of literature banned by the state, especially formerly in the communist countries of eastern Europe (a samizdat newsletter)

ackee (location 516) - lychee

Drambuie (location 521) -  golden-coloured, 40% ABV liqueur made from Scotch whisky, heather honey, herbs and spices

Alexander Technique (location 680) - named after its developer Frederick Matthias Alexander, is an alternative therapy based on the idea that poor posture causes a range of health problems

pedalos (location 1007) - pedal boat

protests against Clause 28 (location 1399) - Section 28 refers to a part of the Local Government Act 1988, which stated that local authorities in England, Scotland and Wales "shall not intentionally promote homosexuality or publish material with the intention of promoting homosexuality" or "promote the teaching in any maintained school of the acceptability of homosexuality as a pretended family relationship"

egotarians (location 4278) - Relating to a dish or cuisine created only to show off the chef's culinary skills or creativity

mardy (location 4360) - angry and complaining; refusing to be pleasant to other people

Siege of Mafeking (location 4933) - a 217-day siege battle for the town of Mafeking (now called Mahikeng) in South Africa during the Second Boer War from October 1899 to May 1900; the lifting of the siege, while of little military significance, was a morale boost for the struggling British.

chiffonier (location 5084) - this is a piece of furniture; it actually has different definitions if you're looking at the British versus North American definition

Hat mentions:

...the orange nylon suit and hat she wore meant customers saw her as a uniformed servant to do their bidding..(location 306)

Yazz reckons that by the time guys her age want to settle down, her ovaries will be busted and they’ll be on to women half their age who can still drop babies at the drop of a hat (location 786)

Winsome is distracted by the men who come back into view through the kitchen window and amble up the beach in the blazing heat, neither wearing sun cream nor a sun hat, in spite of her nagging (location 3498)

most people took favourably to Slim, he was confident and talkative, spoke to strangers, even hostile ones, diffusing their animosity, especially when they heard his accent, they praised his courteousness, his yes m’ams and no sirs, they liked the way he opened doors for women, tipped his hat at men, making them feel respected (location 4718)

she found a job making artificial flowers for a hat factory...(location 4843)

brown shawl wrapped against her shoulders, hair like a bird’s nest with a hat on it (location 4872)

she was taught to knit woollen stockings, a hat and a scarf to wear in winter, to polish her black booties with buttons up the side until they shone, which she wore with pride once she got used to them because at first they gave her sores, never having worn shoes before (location 4897)

20 comments:

  1. Hi Engie! I got your Valentine yesterday and it brightened up the whole day! I am planning on stealing your puns and sending them to my former yoga student who would love them. Bad puns used to be my signature in that class, all the older people would wait for one and then tell me after class that they were disappointed if I forgot! Anyway, I don't have a comment about this book as I haven't read it but I might - it actually sounds like something I'd like, I enjoy vignette-style books.

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    1. Ha!! I LOVE that you got that card TWO WEEKS late. Some of that is because I sent it out too late, but some is because mail is so slow these days. I guess I should send out my St. Patrick's Day cards this weekend!

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  2. The non-capitalization thing would be vaguely annoying (I would just be wondering the whole time WHY the author did that?) and I also wouldn't like the fact that you're frequently switching to a different character. I like to get deeply into a character and stay with them a long time.

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    1. I truly do not understand non-standard punctuation. What am I supposed to get out of that? What purpose does it serve? I wasn't too distracted by it in this book, but I can imagine it getting on my nerves in a different context.

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  3. I haven't really read any books with this format but I think it wouldn't work for me, either. I need all the backstory about a character, I want to know everything about them. I feel like it would be unsatisfying to know them for such a short time.

    The "afterschool special" aspect would be offputting for me, too.

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    1. I did honestly feel like there were too many lessons for me. I do not like to be preached out, even if it's on things I agree with!

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  4. Grrl, Bet you'd find more characters with your name if you read in French, IYKWIM :D
    I loved this book... and the Grace Nichols book mentioned in it.
    My initial reaction to your description of ackee as lychee was one of protest. You're probably scientifically correct, but I think of lychees (I love them) as very sweet, and I've only ever had ackee as a savory preparation with saltfish (and it tastes almost exactly like scrambled eggs!). I didn't even realize it was a fruit, so what do I know?!

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    1. My husband joked that I should learn French for this same reason. Alas, I'm not going to learn French.

      Oh, huh. I have never had a lychee, let alone an ackee. You are probably correct and I just didn't dig in enough to the particulars.

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  5. Oh I have a hard time with books that don't use quotation marks, so I feel like I might be really irked by the lack of capitalization. I'm glad you mentioned it - I've had this book on my Libby TBR list, but now I'm not quite sure that it's going to be an immediate read for me.

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  6. I read this book back in April of 2020, and we all know how stressful and weird that time was. I remember having a lot of trouble getting into it, and feeling like I wasn't doing a good job of remembering the relationships between the stories. I think I warmed up to it eventually, but I'm not sure because I don't keep track and I didn't review it on my blog.

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    1. You know what? I feel like right now is just as stressful as early COVID for me and I am on the reading struggle bus. It's probably a better book than I'm making it out to be.

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    2. After today's oval office shitstorm, I feel like right now is even more stressful than early COVID. We should all probably just read comfort books so we can get our sleep at night and not try anything remotely challenging.

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  7. Twelve characters in a book would be too much for my aging brain to track. I laughed at your reference to after school special lessons. Doesn’t sound like a book I would enjoy. Too many great books out there to compete with it. ;)

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    1. Yeah, I think there are better books out there. But this one is really highly regarded and won the Booker Prize, so it's possible I'm just not the right person to read it.

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  8. I DNFed that book because I could not stand that it did not have proper capital letters at the start of sentences. I just couldn't get past that!

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    1. Ha! I figured it out in the end. It's sort of lyrical and just made me think I was reading poetry.

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  9. Hmmm, this author is very popular in the UK, and I feel like I should read her, and I read interviews taken with her after she won the Booker Man prize for this book and I liked her and they also made me feel like I should read her, but then I think I had a look at the book in an airport and I just couldn't. Maybe it struck me as too self aware? I learned the Alexander technique long ago in acting classes -how funny to see it mentioned!

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    1. The book is very lesson heavy, I think. That was probably my biggest peeve. The author didn't really let the reader make their own conclusions, but just said them out loud. Maybe that's needed in 2025, but it was not my favorite part of it.

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  10. We read this for book club years ago and it was "just ok" for me. I hated the lack of capitalization and I found myself so confused while reading the book. It's one of those books that left me feeling like I wasn't "smart enough" to get it.

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    1. Oh, I think you're plenty smart enough. I don't understand the punctuation thing, to be honest. I don't know what it added to the book.

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