Wednesday, June 18, 2025

The Favorites by Layne Fargo

Sarah from Sarah's Bookshelves recommended The Favorites by Layne Fargo. It was marketed as a sports romance about Olympic ice dancers. I am hit and miss on sports books (and romances at this point in my life, I guess - do we remember the days when any old romance novel was okay in world?), but ice dancing! That sounded perfect. 


This cover is misleading. It is clear what the cover is in this photo, but my library cover just looks like a Impressionist painting of a human woman. 

AND IT WAS PERFECT. This is not going to win a Pulitzer or anything, but I was riveted by every soap opera plot point. The secret pregnancy. The abusive parents. The closeted athlete. I wanted every juicy morsel. There was not too much sporting, which is a complaint I have about a lot of sports books. It was ice dancing and that's sort of important, but it could have been any sport with a male/female partnership, I guess. 

I found myself saying "that is such a red flag, girl" and "stop taking those pills" OUT LOUD when I was reading it and, honestly, that's good enough for me. I loved how there were occasional pages of an oral history about these people - that was really fun. I like an oral history, to be fair, so if that's not your jam, you should know that most of the book is told in a traditional narrative format. 

Things are NOT GREAT in my world right now, but my reading game is WONDERFUL. This is the third book in a row that I am going to say 5/5 stars. 

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Lines of note:

People talk about Great Lakes winters as though they're hell frozen over from Thanksgiving to Easter, but it's February that you've got to look out for. After weeks of bitter temperatures, several feet of snow fell overnight, and even in the Midwest, they have to cancel school for that. (page 139)

You know what? Things don't get bad until December usually. February/March is my low weather point. I love it when authors talk about Midwestern weather, although your mileage will vary on that. 

In the Midwest, we call the first warm spell of the year "Fool's Spring," because we know from bitter experience the lovely weather can't last. Another cold snap lurks right around the corner, ready to lunge as soon as we shed our winter coats. (page 230)

More weather talk! I'm all in. Also, I call it "False Spring," but there's no need to be pedantic about it. This is why I don't put away most winter gear until Memorial Day. 

Hat mentions (why hats?): 

My hat had come off somewhere in the struggle...(page 140)

Fischer and Chan did a country-western line dance, complete with cowboy hats and bedazzled gingham. (page 299)

Monday, June 16, 2025

Small Town Saturday Night*

It was a big day here in Next to Nowhere, Wisconsin on Saturday. 

First up, I'd like to say that it was Flag Day. For complicated reasons, I did not attend any No Kings protests, but I was there in spirit. And we are bound and determined in our household to reclaim the flag for the good guys. 

Then! I was off to the Farmer's Market. For a variety of reasons, I have not yet been to the Market since it has been outdoors this season. I rectified it by buying snap peas, honey, and delicious gluten-filled rolls.

Then, because I am the person I am, I took a selfie with a person in a cow costume. I'd also like to say that the person in the cow costume must have been SWELTERING because it was not a cool day.



We'll get to the reason for the cow in a second.

Up next, I saw there was a book sale at the library across the street. Unfortunately, I had spent every one of my $55 in cash at the Market, so I didn't stop by.

Then I took my Market goods back home and picked up Dr. BB to head to the museum because it was Dairy Day at the Mooseum again! There were cows, root beer floats, and children doing races on mini-ATVs? I'm not really sure what that last part was about. The cow at the Market was promoting this event.




I went home to clean the litter box and bathe the dog and then I collapsed on the couch reading a very good book while I dreamed about staying home for the rest of the day.

But after dinner Dr. BB and I headed over to the community center to go to their Cheese Louise event that was all about cheese? I don't know. There was a new art exhibit opening featuring paintings of cows and I desperately want one that has a price tag of $3800, so I think you know I'm not getting it. You can see some of the art in the below photo, although not my beloved $3800 one.  ANYWAY, there was a chef doing a cooking demo, so we watched that.


Then I went to water the plants for a friend who is out of town and then I went home and collapsed into bed. I mean, what a day in Small Town America.

*This is a reference to a beloved song by Hal Ketchum that has the immortal line "Lucy, you know the world must be flat/Cuz when people leave town, they never come back." 

Sunday we did laundry and I only left the house to walk the dog and have her do things like this when SHE JUST GOT A BATH YESTERDAY.


Those of you who want to know what Zelda's up to, I don't want to disappoint you. Let me just tell you, it's too hot for my precious girl. (The reason there aren't more Zelda photos on this blog is because she basically just does this all the time.)



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And that's that. What fun summertime event did you do this weekend?

Friday, June 13, 2025

How to Read a Book by Monica Wood


In How to Read a Book by Monica Wood, we follow the intersecting stories of three people: Harriet, a retired woman who runs a book club at a prison; Violet, a woman in that book club; and Frank, a retired machinist who has recently been widowed. As we read the book, we learn more about each one and so when their paths cross, we are not surprised by what happens next. 

There are cats, African gray parrots, and a woman obsessed with a dog in this book. I mean, what more could I ask for? The book is a bit sweet, so if a saccharine book turns you off, this isn't for you. It asks questions about forgiveness and second chances and what family looks like. I liked it a lot. 5/5 stars

Line of note:

"We'll have to get you something to read." Her own voice is a loveliness to me. A clarion whatever.
"Books won't solve my problems, Harriet."
"No, but they give your problems perspective. They allow your problems to breathe." (page 64)

Things I looked up:

Across from there, an art museum with an ugly sculpture out front. A squat, rusted seven. The number seven. It looks famous. (page 44)

Seven by Robert Indiana in front of the Charles Shipman Payson Building which is part of the Portland Museum of Arts in Portland, Maine.

flibbety (page 78) - I don't know. This is from "dressed in one of her crinkled, flibbety tops in a cloudburst of color." Flibbity (note that there are two of the letter i, not an e in the second vowel spot) is to produce from nothingness, but I can't find it with an i and an e. 

Spoon River Anthology by Edgar Lee Masters (page 19 and then a lot more) - This book is central to the plot of How to Read a Book and now I sort of want to read it. 

Hat mentions (why hats?):

...and a weird store that sells only hats. (page 104)

The weird store that sells only hats doesn't call. (page 106)

...the one in the hat. (page 185)

Wearing little Danish hats. (page 226)

Frank tipped an imaginary hat...(page 263)

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Have you read Spoon River Anthology? Seen the Seven sculpture? Do you know what flibbety means?

Wednesday, June 11, 2025

The Ministry of Time by Kaliane Bradley

The Ministry of Time by Kaliane Bradley was my book club's pick. I missed book club, unfortunately, because I really wanted to talk about it because I enjoyed it so very much. 


Our unnamed main character is a biracial woman, the daughter of a Cambodian refugee and a white man. She's having an unremarkable career in job translating in the Ministry of Defense when she's hired as a "bridge" to a time-traveling naval officer, Commander Graham Gore, who was pulled from a mission in the Arctic in 1847. What follows is a romance? A time travel escapade? A critique of modern life as seen through the lens of our ancestors? A workplace drama? Hmmm....it's a genre mishmash!

The first half of the book was hilarious. I laughed so much at our snarky main character and Gore's observations about modern life. I laughed at how the author decided that she would have people time travel and then just hole up in flats in London doing nothing. And then the action started towards the end of the book and it took a serious tone that was unexpected, but not unwelcomed. 

I don't know if I've sold you on this book, but I loved it a lot. 5/5 stars

Lines of note:
I slid quietly to the floor and leaned my head against the wall. I wasn't going to see a Ministry therapist. I knew I should, and I knew I wouldn't. (page 119)
I feel like this was a sign from the universe that I should talk to someone, but I know I'm not going to.

"He is a pizzle-headed doorknob," said Margaret. (page 122)
Pizzle-headed!! Lovely. Let's bring back old-time insults.

It was a moment among moments, but everyone was held in it, captured in a small and easy joy. I return again and again to this memory. It's proof, you see. Not everything I did was wrong. (page 186)
I have had this thought a lot in recent weeks. My life is what it is because of a series of choice, but surely I haven't done everything wrong.

I thought I might have the energy to perform every action required to make a cup of tea, but I was surprised to remember how many there were: kettle boiling, mug fetching, milk sniffing, tea bag choosing, teaspoon handling. (page 195)
Sometimes I wonder how I even make it to work, let alone actually do work. 

But the stars aren't eternal. Most were already dead, and I was looking at ghosts. At some point in our planet's future, the skyscape will change. There might not be people left by then...These stars were a temporary, beautiful gift of our era - the era that we all shared, a human era. I'd die one day, just like everyone else, so I had better try to live. (page 329)
I thought this was beautiful. The universe is fleeting.

Things I looked up (in which you learn that I know nothing about Cambodian life or culture):
Éclat (page 8) - Ostentatious display : publicity; dazzling; brilliance

Polonaise (page 13) -  a slow dance of Polish origin in triple time, consisting chiefly of an intricate march or procession

Voight - Kampff (page 54) - was a fictional test used by the LAPD's Blade Runners to assist in determining whether or not an individual was a replicant - a fictional interpretation of the Turing test

gelid (page 103, and then again and again) - icy; extremely cold

rhotacism (page 124) -  a speech disorder characterized by difficulty articulating the "r" sound, also known as r-deletion, r-substitution, or lallation

borbor (page 149) - Cambodian rice soup or porridge

doolally (page 168) - temporarily deranged or feebleminded

stupa (page 177) - a dome-shaped structure erected as a Buddhist shrine

Gary Glitter (page 177) - Paul Francis Gadd (born 8 May 1944), better known by his stage name Gary Glitter, is an English former singer who achieved fame and success during the 1970s and 1980s. His career ended after he was convicted of downloading child pornography in 1999. He was also convicted of child sexual abuse in 2006 and a series of sexual offences (including attempted rape) in 2015.

Angkor Wat (page 177) - a Hindu-Buddhist temple complex in Cambodia

Tuol Sleng (page 177) - The Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum, or simply Tuol Sleng, is a museum chronicling the Cambodian genocide. Located in Phnom Penh, the site is a former secondary school which was used as Security Prison 21 by the Khmer Rouge regime from 1975 until its fall in 1979.

Saloth Sor (page 177) - YOU GUYS. This is Pol Pot's real name. Why didn't I know this? Honestly. What sort of education do I have?

The Marne (page 200)  - A river in France; the site of a 1914 battle of World War I

Kindertransport (page 207) - an organized rescue effort of children from Nazi-controlled territory that took place in 1938–1939 during the nine months prior to the outbreak of World War II. The United Kingdom took in nearly 10,000 children. The children were placed in British foster homes, hostels, schools, and farms. Often they were the only members of their families who survived the Holocaust. [The line in the book is "We frame the Kindertransport as an act of heroism, a coherent example of Britain's intrinsic charity and anti-fascism. It's not all untrue - those orphans were grateful, often, thrived, sometimes." It's critical, though, of the refusal to take these children's parents.]

Deleuze (page 215) - Gilles Louis René Deleuze was a French philosopher who, from the early 1950s until his death in 1995, wrote on philosophy, literature, film, and fine art.

Rupert Brooke (page 328) - an English poet known for his idealistic war sonnets written during the First World War, especially "The Soldier"


Siegfried Sassoon (page 328) - was an English war poet, writer, and soldier. Decorated for bravery on the Western Front, he became one of the leading poets of the First World War.

Hat mentions (why hats?):
"You could make a lovely hat." (page 57)
"Did the fashionable still wear hats?" (page 64)

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How do you feel about time travel books? 

Monday, June 09, 2025

May 2025: What I Spent

As a reminder, my husband pays the "big bills" like mortgage, phone, and electricity. I pay for groceries and the pets and that somehow evens things out.

Groceries ($870.33, 28.1%) - This was a lot considering there are only two of us, but it did include a trip to Costco, me stocking up on snacks for my office, and me getting road trip snacks for a couple of road trips. I always splurge and get Perrier grapefruit-flavored sparkling water for these trips, even though the price is outrageous. The place I used to get popcorn from on my road trips closed the convenient location, so I don't even stop for popcorn anymore. 

Travel ($753.36, 24.3%) - I bought a plane ticket for an adventure in July!

Gifts ($463, 14.9%) - May is brutal for gifts. There was a graduation gift, birthdays for a few niblings, and Dr. BB's birthday.

Bills ($275.22, 8.9%) - Water/sewer, insurance, and I had to buy new checks.

Cars ($211, 6.8%) - Lots of gas for road trips AND I had to pay for the license plate renewal for one of the cars. 

Savings ($200, 6.5%) - Just the regular. 

Eating out ($144, 4.6%) - I treated myself to lunch out once on a road trip, coffee once, and I took my family out to dinner when I was in Michigan.

Pets ($69.52, 2.2%) - What?!?! Under one hundred dollars?! What nonsense is this? The only things I bought for the girls all month was food for the cat and a cone of shame for Hannah. (If anyone is wondering, Hannah's scab fell off on our walk on Saturday afternoon after she rolled around in the grass like a lunatic. It is currently bald there. I wonder if she's just going to have a bald patch there forever?)

Personal care ($63.40, 2%) - Hair cut!

Entertainment ($10, < 1%) - I paid for parking in Madison when Dr. BB and I had an adventure downtown. 

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What's your favorite road trip snack?

Friday, June 06, 2025

Five for Friday, Edition #25

Clematis, I think. It's bigger than my hand. 

I have been sort of absent from Bloggyland lately and I am both sorry for this and unable to do much about it. Life has taken a turn and in six months, this will likely be behind me, but for now, things are insane in all aspects of my life. I shall post when I can and comment on your posts when I can, but I'm going to be the first to say that something had to go in my life, and, sadly, blogging was the easiest thing to let go. 

But I'm here now and I have about half an hour before I need to walk the dog, so let's talk about all the great and wonderful.

1) Tomorrow I have a date with a blogging friend to go on a fun adventure. Yes, we will be doing all the time traveling and if I don't get to make my own handmade leather bracelet, I will be disappointed.

2) It's peony season! I mean, it's really just flower season, so I'm going to pepper this post with flower photos. 


3) It is THAT TIME OF YEAR. First year orientation at my job. Last year I shared my playlist of music that we blast for the first years and I'm at it again. I have a new co-worker who was able to give me a handful of songs her teenage son listens to. I have asked the first years themselves to recommend songs. 

(OKAY. I must have told this story on someone else's blog. It was! It was Nicole's post. But I'm going to tell it here anyway. We’re doing a software rollout for a software that doesn’t really work at work. But for reasons that escape me right now - this is a lie: I was practicing AVOIDANCE of the real problem - I was focused on getting different colored Post-It notes for an activity with our first years. We only had yellow ones in our office. I asked my husband if we could have some from his office (we work in the same college!!), but he said NO because it came out of his department’s budget. Well, I waited until a morning when no one was in his department and I STOLE FOUR PADS OF POST-ITS from his department. It was the best theft. 

I bring up the great Post-It Theft of 2025 because we have an activity where the first years answer questions on Post-It notes and that's one of the questions I ask. Long tangent.)

Do you have a recommendation for me to add to the list? Relatively clean, snappy, fun? 


4) My husband dislikes rock 'n' roll flutes. Think Jethro Tull, The Moody Blues, or the kickass flute solo in California Dreamin' by the Mamas and the Papas. As you can tell, I am on Team Rock Flute. What team are you on?

Not a flower. My adorable kitty in a window. Awwww...cute baby girl.

5) When you name duos, is there always a name that goes first? When people say my name with my husband's, they almost always say his name first because it sounds better. When people say my name with my sister's, they always say her name first because it sounds better. Does this come up in your life?

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I'll take recommendations for my playlist. Are you Team Rock Flute or not? (This post is absolutely nonsense, isn't it?)

Wednesday, June 04, 2025

May 2025 Accountability Buddy

Thursday, May 1
30-minute yoga class at the student union during lunchtime

Friday, May 2
Day off

Saturday, May 3
30-minute low impact cardio - Low impact, but sweaty!
23-minute yoga for back pain with Yoga for Adriene

Sunday, May 4
40-minute restorative yoga with Charlie Follows

Monday, May 5
30-minute yoga class at the student union during lunchtime
30-minute Werq (dance) class after work

Tuesday, May 6
45-minute body blast class at the community center after work

Wednesday, May 7
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime*
30-minute yoga flow - This was too advanced for me. By about a third of the way through, I was just improvising on my own. I liked the nature sounds in the background a lot. 

Thursday, May 8
30-minute yoga class at the student union during lunchtime

Friday, May 9
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute no repeat total body - Sweaty!

Saturday, May 10
20-minute upper body circuit with Caroline Girvan
10-minute standing abs workout - I liked this one!
15-minute flow with Adriene

Sunday, May 11
35-minute posterior chain strength training
20-minute yin yoga

Monday, May 12
30-minute yoga class at the student union during lunchtime
30-minute Werq (dance) class after work

Tuesday, May 13
45-minute body blast class at the community center after work

Wednesday, May 14
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime
30-minute yoga flow with Charlie Follows - This video was too advanced for me, so I just started doing my own thing about a third of the way through. I liked the nature sounds, though. 

Thursday, May 15
40-minute yoga class at the student union during lunchtime

Friday, May 16
Day off

Saturday, May 17
45-minute yoga flow with Charlie Follows

Sunday, May 18
30-minute total body strength and cardio from Fitness Blender
15-minute yoga full body for flexibility 

Monday, May 19
30-minute yoga class at the student union during lunchtime
30-minute Werq (dance) class after work

Tuesday, May 20
45-minute body blast class at the community center after work

From the workout class at the community center. We went up and down the stairs over and over again. I know for a fact that there was a board meeting happening at the same time and I have to admit I was giggling as we pounded up the stairs like elephants for 35 minutes. 

Wednesday, May 21
45-minute total body deep stretch Yoga with Adriene - I have done this one a couple times before, but it's still hard. That lizard pose is tough. 

Thursday, May 22
Day off

Friday, May 23 
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime (admittedly I was a few minutes late)

Saturday May 24
30-minute upper body strength with Fitness Blender
1 circuit of this standing abs workout (8 minutes) - Look, I do standing abs because I don't want to tweak my neck. This is not the right video for me because almost exercise requires you to wrench your neck around. 

Sunday, May 25
35-minute legs and core with Kaleigh Cohen
15-minute post-workout routine for limberness

Monday, May 26
40-minute yoga flow

Tuesday, May 27
45-minute body blast class at the community center after work

Wednesday, May 28
45-minute hatha yoga flow

Thursday, May 29
60-minute Zumba class

Friday, May 30
Day off

Saturday, May 31
Day off

Totals: 25/31 (80.6%) days - squeaked in my 80% goal
12 days yoga
15 days strength/cardio
4 short 15-minute stretch classes at lunchtime

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*Our local healthcare organization does free stretch classes virtually three times a week. Sign up here! It's free. It's fun. We regularly talk about candy and what's for lunch. It's a delightful break in the middle of the day. You do not have to have your camera on. 
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What workout makes you the sweatiest? As soon as I start running or climbing stairs, I start sweating like crazy!