43 minute walk with Hannah the Dog in the morning
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| Sunrise on a grey, grey day. |
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| Who? Me? I wasn't chasing ducks. You must have me confused for another dog. |
A girl in the world
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| Sunrise on a grey, grey day. |
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| Who? Me? I wasn't chasing ducks. You must have me confused for another dog. |
As a reminder, my husband pays the "big bills" like mortgage, phone, car, and electricity. I pay for groceries and the pets and that somehow evens things out. However, at some point last month, my credit card was used by somebody that wasn't me and they cancelled my card and I had to get a new on and that meant I couldn't pay for the big Costco trip. What that means is that the groceries this month look miniscule, but that's because my husband paid for a big chunk. Muhahahaha.
Entertainment ($13.70, <1%) - Spotify membership.
Fitness ($15, <1%) - One fitness class.
Eating out ($30.79, 2%) - I got coffee once and had dinner out with friends when I was in Michigan.
Cars ($31.63, 2%) - I filled up one car with gas once.
Personal care ($80, 5%) - Face lotion and a hair cut.
Gifts ($85, 5%) - Some birthday gifts and greeting cards.
Savings ($200, 12%) - I tried a system earlier in the year to increase this and it worked for exactly one month.
Bills ($300, 18%) - Water/sewer, home and car insurance
Pets ($420, 25%) - Food for both, litter for the cat, probiotics for the dog. and I had to buy a card for Hannah's baths. Hannah's probiotics are literally like $2/day, so they add up!
Groceries ($490, 30%) - We spent almost this at Costco last month, though, and Dr. BB paid for that.
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April's going to be a bit different, though, because I'm going on a trip with Bestest Friend, so the entertainment number will be much higher! And groceries will definitely increase. I'm not mad about that, though! What's the last thing you bought?
1) The ghost: I think our house is haunted. Let me explain. There was THIS DAY. Here are the events that unfolded on THAT DAY.
2) Passwords: I recently had to change my password at work and I realized that I've never talked about my password strategy. I go to the last note I've made in an ebook and I use that as a guide. The last thing I marked is from the book The Martian Contingency and it's the following line: Purim is easily the most fun of the Jewish holidays. I'm pretty sure I marked it because I've never heard of Purim (because I suck).
Anyway, if I were going to make a password from this (I am not because I already changed my password recently), I'd make it something like Pizez!!!mostest1001 because 1001 is the location number on the Kindle. And then I'd think about that book every time I type my password, which is dozens of times a day. I had a password from the mediocre book Zazen for a time and I always sort of wished it was from a better book. But the password I currently have is from a book I actively disliked, so that's even worse!
What's your password creation strategy?
3) It takes a village/I am THAT NEIGHBOR/are the boys okay?: Two incidents in my neighborhood have me concerned that I am the neighbor other neighbors talk about.
4) Wherefore art thou green beans? - I had all the stuff for my green bean salad except for green beans. EZ. Go get green beans and have a salad ready for lunch all week? Don't mind if I do. Except I went to five stores and four of them had ZERO green beans and one of them had DISGUSTING green beans. Is there a green bean shortage I am unaware of?
5) CBWC - April is Cool Blogger Walking Club time! Elisabeth sponsors it and it basically just asks that you do at least ten minutes of intentional movement every day. Who's in?
6) It's gawk at dangerous weather time! - I'm currently helping a friend so I am not at home. Last night there was a tornado watch/warning/watch at my home and Dr. BB was home alone with the girls. He laughed about how all the neighbors were out stormwatching, but then was no longer laughing when the sirens were going off and he had to somehow get two four-legged creatures into our asbestos-filled basement. They both had to be carried down and I have to admit that I am a bit concerned that my chronic rhabdo having husband carried a presumably squirmy 50-pound dog down the stairs.
Let tornado season begin!
In the meantime, my friend is mostly sleeping and I have been able to get a lot of work done (when you're not at the office, you get shit done because no one is stopping by to irritate you) and read a lot. I even did a short yoga thing. I'm "helping," but it actually sort of feels like a vacation?
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Have you had an adrenaline raising situation recently? Ever "saved" children on a roof? Who's in for CBWC? Are there too many capslock in this post?
I read some real bangers this month. Yay for a solid reading month.
3/5: Several People Are Typing by Calvin Kasulke (library, 2021) - Pure joy. *dusty stick* 5/5 stars
3/6: A Wish for Winter by Viola Shipman (library ebook, 2022) - This book IS MORE THAN FOUR HUNDRED PAGES. A good 100 pages is praying and giving Bible quotes. Also, did you know Viola Shipman is a pen name for a DUDE? I got conned into reading a pseudo-Christian romance with a LOT of preaching written BY A MAN. Thumbs down. I only kept reading it because I didn't know it was 416 (!!) pages and kept thinking that surely I was almost done. One star because I did finish it. Half a star because I have to enjoy someone who loves Michigan as much as I do. 1.5/5 stars
3/8: Wild Eyes (Rose Hill #2) by Elsie Silver (library, 2024) - I think I read the first book in this series, but I can't find a record of it on my blog, so it must be my imagination. Anyway, I loved this book even though it has tropes I do not usually care for. 5/5 stars
3/12: How to Find a Missing Girl by Victoria Wlosok (library, 2023) - Girl gets murdered in her small town. Another girl starts a podcast about the investigation. Then that second girl gets murdered. What's going on in this town? The premise is good. The YAness of it is YAful and I guessed the murderer on the very page they first appeared. *sigh* I have got to stop reading YA. 2.5/5 stars
3/15: The Island of Sea Women by Lisa See (library, 2019) - Historical fiction about a woman who grew up in an island in Korea through WWII and the Korean War. I wanted to like this book, but there were some things that just didn't work for me. 3/5 stars
3/19: Humor Me: How Laughing More Can Make You Present, Creative, Connected, and Happy by Chris Duffy (library, 2026) - Very helpful and fun. 5/5 stars
3/21: In Zanesville by Jo Ann Beard (library audiobook narrated by the author, 2011) - Funny coming of age story about a girl in the 1970s. 4/5 stars
3/23: The Global Pigeon by Colin Jerolmack (university library, 2013) - Boy did I enjoy this look at pigeon-human interactions in urban environments. 5/5 stars
3/25: Dreadnought (Nemesis #1) by April Daniels (library ebook, 2017) - Transgender girl is secretly painting her nails when the superhero Dreadnought dies in front of her and passes his superpowers to her. What follows is a poorly paced action novel with lots of transphobia. I'm glad someone is bringing trans representation into superhero novels, but this didn't do it for me. 2.5/5 stars (I have to stop reading YA.)
3/28: Where They Last Saw Her by Marcie R. Rendon (library, 2024) - A pretty good thriller in which I learned a lot about the murdered and missing indigenous women movement. 4/5 stars
Did Not Finish
Where the Axe is Buried by Ray Nayler (library, 2025) - I'm sure this is a very good book, but I am 100% not into the idea of reading about an authoritarian surveillance state while I live in these United States in 2026. DNF on page 103 (31.6%). (This is happening in my county right now and no one is talking about it. They're too busy complaining about pot holes and discussing the flavors of ice cream at the newly opened for the season ice cream place.)
Orbital by Samantha Harvey (library, 2023) - Sorry to my friends who recommended this to me. I found the introspection boring and gave up after leaving it on the table for more than a week and never wanting to pick it up. DNF at page 29 (14%)
Manhunt by Gretchen Felker-Martin - I do want more trans representation in books, but I swear to all that's holy I would have been just as grossed out by depictions of dirty, sweaty people who haven't showered in weeks even if those people would have been straight. NGS out. DNF at 24%.
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What's the last five star read you read?
I think it should be clear to all my regular readers that right now I am relistening to all the episodes of You're the Expert, a comedy panel show where comedians talk to an expert. I may be the only person listening to these episodes from ten years ago, but there's something sort of nostalgic about listening to these shows in a pre-COVID world. If you ask me about anything right now, I'll tie it back to YTE. Anyway, Colin Jerolmack was on the show talking about his book The Global Pigeon and I was immediately intrigued (here's the episode link).
I am a political scientist. And I stand by my feeling that it's super important. If you don't think it's important, I suggest you take a closer look at the world around you right now. BUT. I also think the sociologists and anthropologists have a claim to important things. And their methodology is SO MUCH FUN. Participant observation is my absolute favorite academic thing to read. Richard Fenno's Home Style is a classic. Fenno was a political scientist, but he embedded himself with eighteen members of the House of Representatives and wrote a book that's literal theory is that there are nested circles of constituencies, which makes me laugh because why did you need to spend YEARS to figure that out. ANYWAY. I love that book. Did anyone else read Gang Leader for a Day and then wonder why they didn't become a sociologist? OH! What about the ethical debacle that is Carolyn Ellis who embedded herself into a community, wrote a condemning book about them, and then lots of other people wrote about how unethical Carolyn Ellis was? SOCIOLOGY, MAN. SO GOOD.
Okay, I need to get back on track. So when Jerolmack was on this podcast talking about how he's an anthropologist, but he studies pigeons, I almost peed myself laughing. By definition, anthropology is the holistic, scientific study of humanity. And he opens with PIGEONS. I want you know that I had to pause the podcast because I was laughing so hard. Is this funny to anyone else? Anyway, it's not really about pigeons. He is really interested in what role these animals play in modern urban life, so it does end up being about humans, but I still insisted on calling this book the pigeon book as I was reading it.
And boy did I like this book. Friends, I was riveted. Basically, the author noticed that people interacted with pigeons in a park, embedded himself with people who race pigeons (like rooftop racing) in New York City, then traveled to Berlin to embed with some Turkish immigrants who raise tumblers, a type of pigeon that tumbles acrobatically and dramatically in flight. Then he spent some time at the end of the book going to a crazy pigeon race where the prizes are literally millions of dollars. THERE ARE PHOTOS. RIVETING.
And Jerolmack is a sociologist, so he's really interested in human-animal relations and all roads lead back to that. I think it's interesting that this is such a male-dominated hobby. I think it's interesting that pigeon racing hasn't really caught on outside of a few major cities. I think it's interesting that it's such a communal hobby, even though it appears to be very much a solitary endeavor at first glance. I think it's SUPER interesting how pigeons are treated in different cities and countries. Are they a nuisance who cause a lot of damage? Are they part of a long cultural heritage that should be respected? ARE THEY BOTH?
If any of this is interesting to you (seriously, at least watch the video of the tumbling pigeons!), read this. Sure, it's an academic book, but it's readable and surprisingly accessible for ethnography. 5/5 stars
Lines of note:
In public places, strangers are often expected to - at most - briefly acknowledge one another and then divert their attention elsewhere. Although strangers may wish to engage in sidewalk interactions, rules of civility dictate that they need an excuse to do so. Erving Goffman observed that dogs are a "classic bridging device" between strangers in public, and studies of urban parks confirm that dogs "facilitate encounters among the previously unacquainted." In public places like Father Demo Square, pigeons too may act as a sort of interactional prop among strangers - in addition to focusing the attention of those already associated. (page 31)
Because pigeon flying was historically the domain of working-class white men who passed on the practice, and their coops, to their sons, the number of flyers declined precipitously over the second half of the 20th century as many upwardly mobile whites migrated from New York's outer boroughs to the suburbs. But pigeon flying is not dead yet, and by making the four-mile trip to Joey's pet shop, Carmine got to socialize with other elderly and middle-aged Italians who commuted in from more genteel neighborhoods like Carroll Gardens and Bensonhurst. Carmine also mixed with young and middle-aged Hispanic and black men who flew pigeons in the immediate vicinity of the pet shop. These men reflected a newer cohort of flyers that picked up the hobby from ethnic whites as kids when they moved into neighborhoods in transition such as Bushwick and Easy New York. (page 80)
Rather than sitting idle or passively having their life structured by television, these retired men provided their own structure and narrative to their life - the birds and coops required their constant labor and attention. Interestingly, they work of keeping pigeons (e.g., feeding, bathing, and raising them) also has clear parallels to the kind of domestic "care work" that is traditionally coded as feminine. Though none of the flyers framed it this way, pigeons seemed to provide an opportunity for men to perform care work without it posing a threat to their masculinity. (page 102-103)
Most flyers were fascinated by pigeon biology, genetics, reproduction, the homing instinct, and so on. Yet when I asked them if they felt an affinity to nature, I was usually met with a blank look that followed a simple "no" or "not really." I saw no evidence that pigeon keeping was part of, or led to, a more general connect to nonhumans...The men were thus attached to the birds not primarily because they were ambassadors of the wild but because they were products of the men's own hands. (page 105)
...spoke to Ahmet Dede, a pudgy, boyish-looking man in his early 30s from Istanbul, he lamented, "This leisure activity is actually a waste of time. You don't earn money by doing this. I would be happier, for example, if I studied - if I was in your place and interviewed you instead of you interviewing me. I would be a happier person if I studied instead of taking care of pigeons, working in . . . the imbiss, and I don't want my child to pay too much attention to pigeons." (page 126)
This was brought home in the common occurrence of curious Germans, including dog walkers, who happened upon the coops and marveled at the frantic tumbles of the pigeons. Such chance encounters usually resulted in amicable interactions between the Turkish men and ethnic Germans, but in each instance the Germans asked why the men kept pigeons. Every answer the men gave highlighted the origins of the bird or the animal practice. Such discussions were never had about people's pet dogs, as keep dogs is taken-for-granted animal practice. (page 130)
...Turkish caretakers gained satisfaction in their mundane interactions with the birds, through raising them and through the simple aesthetic appreciation of watching them in flight. Some kissed the birds, and Turan tenderly spoke to a sick baby pigeon as he fed it special food through a funnel....Some of the men referred to caring for pigeons as an "escape."...The escape that the tumblers afforded was not a flight from society altogether, but rather a temporary respite from tedious routines and the estrangement of living in a foreign city. (page 130-131)
Things I looked up:
Coca-Cola spelled out its logo in pigeons (page 50) - I mean, I don't think it really looks like the logo, but what do I know?
Gary Player (page 196) - a South African retired professional golfer who is widely considered to be one of the greatest golfers of all time. Also, he was a supporter of apartheid, so you decide what to do with that information.
Hat mentions (why hats?):
He regularly wore fingerless gloves, a thick gold chain with a medallion, and a bicycle hat (one said "Brooklyn" on the brim while another was emblazoned with "USA"). (page 91)