Tuesday, December 09, 2025

The Great Ornament Search of 2025

Every year I buy a new Christmas ornament and make my husband unwrap it when we open our presents and say it's from "The Ornament Fairy." Here are some of them. 

Here's are some I considered this year.

Custom message ornament: Maybe "This Year Sucked." Or "I Cried A Lot." Or "My Mom Died and I'm Doing Just Fine with That." What about "My Relationship with My Sister is Complicated." It was a consideration.


Or just this



Or maybe this?


Or, hey, what about this?


Okay, fine. I didn't do that. Enough with my pity party.

Serious consideration was these cute snowmen. It seemed even more appropriate after our snowstorm a couple of weekends ago.


A Subaru ornament to celebrate our new purchase? That seemed like recency bias. 

I desperately want this custom book ornament. But that would really be about me and not the two of us, so that's a big no, but next year I'm going to seriously consider this as a present to myself. Pick out my top ten books of the year and put them in there. It's a perfect ornament for an occasion that isn't me acting as The Ornament Fairy. 


In the end, I went for a fairly safe choice





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Are you buying any new ornaments this year?

Monday, December 08, 2025

November 2025: What I Spent

As a reminder, my husband pays the "big bills" like mortgage, phone, car, and electricity. I pay for groceries and the pets and that somehow evens things out.

Something's that absolutely not included here is that we bought a new car and put down some serious $$$. That came out of our shared savings account. Still. It's on my mind. 


Entertainment ($12.65, <1%) - My Spotify subscription.

Cars ($87.64, 2.5%) - Gas a few times. (LOL at the elephant in the room on this one.)

Clothes ($109.85, 3.1%)  - I bought new leggings and underwear and I'm still figuring out some new shoes. The saga of the shoes is long and maybe someday I'll regale you with it, but I paid for the shoes, had to return them for fit, and then they charged me more for the adjustments. This has been a literally months long process and I'm not even sure I love the shoes. 

Gifts ($137, 3.9%) -  A birthday gift for my nephew and I ordered holiday cards and our Christmas ornament for the year. 

Eating out ($147, 4.2%) - At the beginning of the month, I was in Michigan and the bulk of this is a dinner where I treated my sister and brother-in-law.

Savings ($200, 5.7%) - I mean, it IS something, I guess. 

Personal care ($221.06, 6.3%) - Haircut, some hair product, and some makeup. 

Bills ($256.01, 7.3%) - Water/sewer and insurance. This will go up slightly with the new car. 

Groceries ($699.40, 19.9%) - This doesn't seem too bad. 

Pets ($769.93, 21.9%) - ARGH. Last month this was under $300. Zelda had her annual exam, they both got food, I bought some birdseed, and Zelda had ALL her  medicine replaced this month. 

Health ($877.05, 24.9%) - I'm still paying my PT and I had an eye exam and ordered new contacts and I had to pay $50 for pathology for that tortuous appointment. I have to admit that seeing that all this was more than groceries for the month has been a hard pill to swallow.

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Normally I ask about fun purchases, but I'm switching it up.  What did you pay for in November that you resent? 

Friday, December 05, 2025

Five for Friday, Edition #33

1) Update on an update: We did it. We bought a new car. I might have cried when we drove by the Hyundai for the last time. We bought a Subaru Outback (if you want the details it's a Limited trim with a turbo engine). Is it really an SUV? Yes. Do I feel like I've let myself down? Sort of. 

Her name is Lucy and she has heated seats and a heated steering wheel. Since the high topped out IN THE SINGLE DIGITS yesterday, I have made use of these features. 

I would show you a photo, but I literally never see her in the daylight. Maybe you'll get a photo in May.

2) Let the season begin: We have finally joined all the festive people. Lights are up and the advent puzzle has been started. The holiday market is tomorrow and I'm hoping to do most of my shopping by the end of the weekend. Cards have been ordered. Tickets for the Rotary Gardens light show have been ordered. Let's GO. 

3) Workity work: You know how work has been insane and I said things will slow down? I mean, that hasn't happened yet. The software launch has been a disaster and I'm still the point person for that. We have a new hire which will eventually mean less on my plate, but now means MORE on my plate. Eh. You know what? Who cares? It's fine. Just don't look at my work calendar.

4) Midwesterners must talk about the weather: If you follow other Wisconsin/Illinois bloggers, you might already know that last weekend an entire planet's worth of snow was dumped on us, followed by more snow, and then the temperatures plummeted so that the high yesterday was in the single digits. What does that mean? It means that snow ain't going nowhere and Hannah is by turns delighted by the snow and horrified by it. It also means my time outdoors stat is not doing well right now.


5) It's Spotify Wrapped time: The best of time of year is when I am yet again reminded that white trash stays white trash. YES, Tanya Tucker is one of my most listened to artists of the year. Do yourself a favor and listen to her cover of  "The House that Built Me" and follow it up with "Lizzie and the Rainman." If you want deeper Tucker cuts, consider her version of "The Thunder Rolls," the sad story song "What's Your Mama's Name," my karaoke song "Delta Dawn," or the super romantic "Two Sparrows in a Hurricane." I am a basic white bitch and I intend to stay that way.



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Any big updates in your life? Do you want to talk about the weather? Do you have a song recommendation for me? Do you want to brag about any of the top artists on your Spotify Wrapped?

Wednesday, December 03, 2025

November 2025 Accountability Buddy

In light of last month's breakdown, I really cut myself slack this month. My stats for this year are not going to be great, but at least I'm still out there doing something most of the time.

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Saturday, November 1
More dealing with my mother's belongings. What a hassle. 

Sunday, November 2
Drove most of the day, so this was  day off. 

Monday, November 3 
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Tuesday, November 4
45-minute body blast class at the community center after work

Wednesday, November 5
30-minute gentle yoga after dinner - I almost always work out before dinner, but I was wiped today. But my stats are terrible this year, so I decided that if the most I could was yoga, that was going to have to do for the day.

Thursday, November 6
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Friday, November 7 - Sunday, November 9
Days off

Monday, November 10
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Tuesday, November 11
45-minute fitness class at the community center - This was a bad idea. We did these relays in teams and the faster you did the activities, the less time your teammates were in a wall sit. Well, this meant that low-impact options were not really an option, you know? My leg was pounding at the halfway mark and I'm pretty sure tomorrow I'm going to be in big trouble.

Wednesday, November 12
Day off

Thursday, November 13
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Friday, November 14
Day off

Saturday, November 15
Hour of yardwork. We bent, we weeded, we used the machete. We bagged, we raked. We took half a dozen trips to the compost pile.

Sunday, November 16
I know this doesn't seem like a workout, but I cleaned out both our cars. This was SO HARD and SO PHYSICAL. Vacuuming, cramming your body into tight spaces, and reaching to get into crevices of windows. I was exhausted. 

Monday, November 17
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Tuesday, November 18
45-minute fitness class at the community center - It was cold and rainy and I may have hummed a few bars of this. I did NOT want to go after my miserable time last week, but I went and it was fun and I was in a much better mood afterwards than I was walking in. I would still like some bonus life points for showing up on a day like that. 

Wednesday, November 19
15-minute stretch class at lunchtime*
25-minute walking workout 
5-minute arm workout with dumbbells

Thursday, November 20
15-minute chair stretch class with my first year seminar - I led this chair stretch it was hysterical how many groans were coming from these 18- and 19-year olds, particularly during the seated twist and figure four. 
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Friday, November 21
Day off

Saturday, November 22

Sunday, November 23
40-minute functional full body strength training
10-minute full body yoga stretch

Monday, November 24
30-minute yoga video at the student union during lunchtime

Tuesday, November 25
45-minute fitness class at the community center

Wednesday, November 26
60-minute restorative yoga - May not be for everyone. Easy poses held for 6-8 minutes. Definitely not great if you're in your head about something!
10-minute energy boost yoga stretch - I needed something to get me back up after that other practice. 

Thursday, November 27
30-minute total body circuit workout
15-minute post workout stretch

Friday, November 28
Yard work! So much yard work! We're supposed to get a winter storm, so this was our last chance to deal with leaves and the like. 

Saturday, November 29
40-minutes of shoveling!

Sunday, November 30
30-minutes of shoveling!
30-minute tabata HIIT
25-minute yoga for flexibility- I needed this after all the shoveling!


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*Our local healthcare organization does free stretch classes virtually three times a week. Sign up here! It's free. It's fun. We regularly talk about candy and what's for lunch. It's a delightful break in the middle of the day. You do not have to have your camera on. 
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Total: 22/30 (73.3%) of days
Cardio/strength: 12 days
Yoga: 10 days
Short stretch classes at lunchtime:  2 days

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Do you keep yearly stats on working out? If you do, how are your stats this year?

Tuesday, December 02, 2025

Holiday Card Display

This is what my holiday card display looked like last year before I took it down.

We just have some braided ribbon hanging there and the only way we have them staying in place is with a couple of Command hooks on the corners of the doorway.


The ribbon is knotted together three or four times and there are knots on both ends.

What it looks like before any cards are added to it.

We add the cards with tiny clothespins!


And that's it. 

How do you display your cards?

Monday, December 01, 2025

November 2025 Books


11/2: The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tam (library audiobook read by Gwendoline Yeo, 1989) - I pretty much detested this book. Fun CBBC discussion, though. Sorry, CBBC readers! 2/5 stars

11/5: False Witness by Karin Slaughter (library audiobook read by Kathleen Early, 2021) - A fast-paced and interesting thriller, but maybe too dark for the likes of me. 4/5 stars

11/9: The Anomaly by HervĂ© Le Tellier, translated from the French by Adriana Hunter (library, 2020) - Interesting book, but I didn't love it. 3.5/5 stars

11/9: Twelve Years a Slave by Solomon Northup (library audiobook read by Louis Gossett, Jr., 1853) - A firsthand account of slavery is super interesting, but I sort of wanted more? 3.5/5 stars

11/13: Great Big Beautiful Life by Emily Henry (library, 2025) - I'm sort of between Sarah and Stephany on this one. I found the subplot sort of boring, but the romance was sweet. Do romance novels need to be 400 pages long? Hm. Good banter, fun heroine. Lots of hats. Too much time talking about how hard it is to be rich and famous. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO RATE THIS. 3.5/5 stars

11/16: The Vaster Wilds by Lauren Groff (library audiobook read by January Lavoy) - If you liked the loneliness and despair of I Who Have Never Known Men and also want wilderness survival, this historical fiction about a servant girl who ran away from the Jamestown will be perfect for you. 3.5/5 stars

11/22: August Lane by Regina Black (library, 2025) - Second chance romance. Themes of addiction and rich people complaining about how hard it is to be them. Not my jam. 3/5 stars

11/22: Mr. President, How Long Must We Wait? by Tina Cassidy (library audiobook narrated by Amanda Carlin, 2019) - Alice Paul was a true marvel. This book made me more hopeful about the current circumstances of politics than anything has in years. 5/5 stars

11/29: News of the World by Paulette Jiles (library, 2016) - I learned so much about this Civil War veteran returning a little girl to her family after she'd been kidnapped by indigenous people. 4/5 stars

Total: 9 books
Average star rating: 3.55/5 stars

Did not finish:

Dream Count by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (library, 2025) - I'm on page 40 and all I've read so far is about how hard it is to be a rich Nigerian, particularly during the COVID pandemic. I've read that people love this book, but I'm out. DNF at 10%. 

The City We Became (Great Cities #1) by N.K. Jemisin (library, 2020) - Look, my feelings about New York City are that it smells really bad, it's loud, and there are too many people. I couldn't get into this book that is all about how wonderful it is. DNF on page 76 (17.4%).

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What's the last book you didn't finish?  

Sunday, November 30, 2025

News of the World by Paulette Jiles

I read News of the World by Paulette Jiles in a last minute effort to get the book that features an unlikely friendship prompt of the Pop Sugar Reading Challenge. Little did I know that this book would be such a perfect fit for me.


Captain Jefferson Kyle Kidd is a drifter. In the aftermath of his time in the military in the War of 1812 and the Civil War, he wanders from town to town reading the news. Captain, a former printer who is now widowed, knows that his life could be more, but he keeps on going. It was crazy to think of all things that this man had seen in his life. 

In Wichita Falls, Captain is offered a fifty-dollar gold piece to deliver a ten-year-old girl, Johanna, to her relatives in San Antonio. The catch is that four years earlier this little girl had been kidnapped by the Kiowa after killing her parents and sister. The Kiowa had raised her and she doesn't remember her family, her language, or even how to hold a fork. She is constantly trying to run away, but Captain is patient and they slowly make their way south. 

I was unaware of the phenomenon of child captives in the frontier. Children who were captured by Native Americans assimilated into the culture and didn't adjust well when they were returned to their biological families. From the author's note:

They always wished to return to their adoptive families, even when they had been with their Indian families for less than a year. This was true for both the Anglo, German-Anglo, and Mexican children taken. (page 211)

Johanna and Captain made such a delightful pair. I was so pleased with them and wanted to spend as much time with them as possible. I am not really a western reader, but between this and the gloriousness of Lonesome Dove, maybe I should read more westerns. Also, SO MANY HATS. 4/5 stars

Lines of note:

Laughter is good for the soul and all your interior works. (page 176)

Things I looked up:

polar exploration ship Hansa (page 2) - embarked from Bremen, Germany on June 15, 1869, with the east coast of Greenland as their destination. Two ships made the journey: Captain Karl Koldewey’s Germania, a screw steamer of 140 tons, and the Hansa, commanded by Captain P.F.A. Hegemann. Only one ship returned. The Hansa was crushed in polar ice after being separated from the Germania, but her crew disembarked and survived for six months, drifting more than 1,000 miles on an ice floe. Eventually, they reached the Moravian mission station of Friedriksthal, to the west of Cape Farewell, in early June 1870. 

Cynthia Parker (page 124) - a woman who had been kidnapped around age nine by a Comanche band during the Fort Parker massacre in 1836, where several of her relatives were killed. She was taken with several of her family members, including her younger brother John Richard Parker. Parker was taken into the tribe, eventually having three children with a chief. Twenty-four years later she was relocated and taken captive by Texas Rangers, aged approximately 33, and unwillingly forced to separate from her sons and conform to European-American society.

Temple Friend (page 124) - Lee Temple Friend was kidnapped during what became know as the Legion Valley Massacre in Llano, Texas when he was just eight years old. He was returned to his parents in El Dorado, Kansas when he was twelve, but he did not readapt well and he died in their care a few years later.

galluses (page 132) - During the nineteenth century, suspenders were sometimes called galluses.

Lola Montez (page 138) - an Irish dancer and actress who became famous as a Spanish dancer, courtesan, and mistress of King Ludwig I of Bavaria 

Isn't it crazy how people can be an household name and then within 150 years, no one has ever heard of them?!

Hat mentions (why hats?):
held their hats (page 2, 90)
lifted his hat (page 4)
took off his hat (page 6, 100, 165, 182, 185, 204)
It was black, like his frock coat and vest and his trousers and his hat and his blunt boots. (page 10)
traveling hat (page 15, 134)
good black hat (page 15, 74)
hat can (page 15)
shadow of their hats (page 29)
old field hat (page 32, 51, 157)
tossed their heads and their hats (page 33)
He put his hat over his face (page 39)
settled his hat more firmly (page 42)
blew off people's hats (page 48)
grasping his hat brim (page 50)
walked by with his hat (page 53)
silk hat (page 61)
lifted his hat (page 70, 134 x 2, 139)
pancake hat(s) (page 90, 156)
put on his hat (page 91)
put on his own hat (page 92)
touch(ed) his hat (page 93, 161x2, 162)
removed his hat (page 93)
crown of a hat (page 107)
under his hat (page 107)
jerked off his hat (page 117)
shabby hats (page 126)
wavy brim of his old hat (page 127)
hat with a very tall crown (page 130)
straw hats (page 132)
hat brim (page 148)
broad-brimmed hats (page 159)
sat his hat lower (page 162)
none of their hats seemed to fit (page 165)
replaced his hat (page 166)
lifted their hats (page 200)
his hat shading his face (page 203)
his hat between her two hands (page 206)
Heah is you hat. (page 206)

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Do you regularly read westerns? Do you have a favorite?